kash452 wrote:I've never personal met a female (with self esteem and confidence etc etc) lol who gives head because she 'likes it'. Maybe because she likes getting the favour returned or the 'power' she has over the man when she does it, or because shes doing it as a treat. But nope not because she likes having a penis in her mouth.. i mean does it taste nice? no does it make you gag? yes, if you could receive head without ever having to give it would you? yes yes yes lol
Really thought oral sex is about giving an receiving its not about if you like the act, whats enjoyable about it? its tastes salty .. they only way i would ever enjoy actually doing it is if my vagina and mouth changed places lol
I think I resisted being on this thread until now. Oh well, I've surely sunk lower at other times on this forum.
Anyway, Kasha, I agree with Mame and Montana, you don't have the knack. You should not feel like you are being choked, you need to be in charge. You don't need to reenact "Deep Throat".I would also suggest that you have never really been in love with any of the men you have performed oral sex on. Somehow when you're really in love all boundaries come down and their body is just an extension of your own. Nothing is dirty or disgusting, it's about learning how you fit into each other. I suggest you fall deeply in love, have that guy get you really hot and ready and then try it - you may find it adds something positive to the whole event. I would continue with more tips, but not until Kicky and Gus send me their credit card numbers.
