ehBeth wrote:Linkat wrote:No ehBeth haven't talked to the kids yet. I know they will have mixed feelings.
I'm a bit worried that the kids will pick up the negative feelings from your family before you get a chance to talk to them about this. Or that someone will say something to them, in hopes of having them on the 'hometown' team.
I see what you're saying. I'm not too worried - I can't imagine my parents would do that. But in any case, my husband and I will discuss when we should talk to the kids.
Also, I haven't "accepted" at work yet. Even though the deadline was supposedly the end of last month - the move isn't going to occur until next summer. Technically I said "No" because at the time, I hadn't completed all my research on schools and other types of things in order to feel comfortable.
If I had said "yes" then changed my mind I would lose my severance. However, if I said "no" and then changed my mind - the only potential impact would be that some one else would take my job. Since no other person at my level even went to visit Texas or voiced interest, there was little risk. I did speak with my boss and my boss' boss about this so everyone is aware, I am interested, but was not in a position to say "yes" at that time.
I am wondering when I should say "yes."