Helen--
Quote:He is the sort of person who will just ignore them [other people] and won't let them bother him...
So he'll cut everyone in the world--except you--some slack?
Are there any large, carnivorous animals in Borneo? If so, encourage him to make the trip without you.
As for your question, was he "right" to cancel the wedding? In his eyes, he's always "right". Your physical attack pushed him over the edge and he wanted to punish you more severely than he ever has before. Do you think of yourself as a perpetually naughty child to be perpetually punished?
As far as your furture happiness goes, cancelling that wedding was absolutely "right".
Of course he needs you. He needs someone to blame for anything that goes wrong--and you were the lucky girl!