Yeah, I know those damn bumps in the road we hit. As I'm going on 9 years without any, I'm crazy about this guy who happens to be crazy about me too, but for reasons I can't explain here, we can't be together. Not now anyway. In the mean time he has a girlfriend and I have zilch, nada!
Anyway, that's my present bump in the road and yes it upsets me, but I just keep on truckin. It'll be his loss if he waits too long ;-)
There are lots of yummy fish in the sea ;-)
martybarker wrote:Was this girl really trying to get at you or did she just happen to end up in the middle of something between you and the guy?
Good question marty. Honestly... I don't know. I seriously think she just decided screw it... I'm out... they can't touch me now because I've already got another job. I liked her as a person outside of work but never fully trusted her integrity at work to be honest. She "stuck" me more than once and flat out lied to my face, but because I knew she was leaving I decided to just keep my mouth shut.
I don't think it was necessarily ME she was trying to get at as much as just let's see... I'm almost done... no way to point fingers... I can pull it off now cause I'm out of here anyway... type of attitude... it could have just as easily been this guy... or the other girl that works there... It just happened to be ME and therefore I want to kick her arse.... LOL
Sounds to me like she's the loser and people will see her for what she is, but if you went and kicked her ass, it just wouldn't look good for you either.
There are times when, no matter how old we are (and I'm older than dirt), when we need something from a man sort of like this......
Peel me a grape, crush me some ice
Skin me a peach, save the fuzz for my pillow
Talk to me nice, talk to me nice
Youve got to wine and dine me
Dont try to fool me bejewel me
Either amuse me or lose me
Im getting hungry, peel me a grape
Pop me a cork, french me a fry
Crack me a nut, bring a bowl full of bon-bons
Chill me some wine, keep standing by
Just entertain me, champagne me
Show me you love me, kid glove me
Best way to cheer me, cashmere me
Im getting hungry, peel me grape
Heres how to be an agreeable chap
Love me and leave me in luxurys lap
Hop when I holler, skip when I snap
When I say, do it, jump to it
Send out for scotch, call me a cab
Cut me a rose, make my tea with the petals
Just hang around, pick up the tab
Never out think me, just mink me
Polar bear rug me, dont bug me
New thunderbird me, you heard me
Im getting hungry, peel me a grape
Ohhh, yeah.......
Hey Diane :-D
If you see a man willing to do all that stuff, let me know ASAP
Thanks hun, I appreciate it
After about 70 posts in 2 hours, there have been ZERO posts in the last twelve hours. It is okay to say nice things about men again! (I am glad that's over with.)
Diane wrote:Pop me a cork, french me a fry
Crack me a nut, bring a bowl full of bon-bons
Chill me some wine, keep standing by
Just entertain me, champagne me...
Is that bad if I do this some times?
Montana wrote:Hey Diane :-D
If you see a man willing to do all that stuff, let me know ASAP
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I'm afraid all those men already have boyfriends....
Ah mais non, dear PBear. Just ask squinney. Those men live in France. Francis is a perfect example. And, as he does eveytime he posts, he reminded me I need to arrange for several more lives.
I would hope after 18 years of marriage that squinney is not an expert on how other men treat women....
It is my experience that women bitch about men who don't pay enough attention to them and then bitch about men being smothering if they do....
wandeljw wrote:After about 70 posts in 2 hours, there have been ZERO posts in the last twelve hours. It is okay to say nice things about men again! (I am glad that's over with.)
LOL Did all the men go into hiding last night or something?
The wrath has ceased indeed....
cheerio...
life goes on...
and on....
and on.....
P.S.
Sorry guys. I hope I didn't go off on any of you last night. I don't think I did. I'm not going to bother re-reading the BS though because that's all it was. A big 'ol load of it spewed out in anger. Just wanted to say sorry is all.
Treya speaking for all the men here, we forgive you and love you. Now be a sweetheart and bring us a beer would ya?