blatham wrote:Gergen (and he's hardly the only such) ought to have given you some pause but it didn't.
Why would Gergen, specifically, deserve to be granted a superior authority on the subject over a fair number of other, equally smart, well-educated and well-informed commenters who have come to opposite assessments?
I mean, beyond the fact that you
agree with him, and not with the others? Have those others given
you any pause, that you have expressed here?
blatham wrote:We all think our opinions well-founded or we wouldn't have them. Certainty doesn't make them correct.
Now that's an insight this debate has certainly confirmed.
Seriously though. When you are certain of something and yet it continues to elicit pretty much unanimous disagreement from fellow posters whom you usually respect and agree with, shouldnt
that give one pause? More than any newspaper column?
blatham wrote:nimh
It's endearing to find another who is nearly as snooty, blind-spotted and as undeniably correct in viewpoint as myself. [..]
Where previously we tended to grant each other the benefit of the doubt, this campaign has pitted person against person or issue against issue. And that changes viewpoints, or has the potential to at least.... "Hi, I'm left-leaning". "Oh well howdy, come in and join us for dinner". Now it changes over to "My goodness, that person sitting beside me is a bit of a dick after all". Growth. [..]
You're a bit of a dick but you know that too already, along with your proper validations of self.
Right. Dickness noted. When irked enough by repetitive and relentlessly argued disagreement, call the other person a dick. You're on the internet, you dont have to face me when you're telling me, must make it easier. It's worked with conservative opponents.
But I mean, for
you to complain about someone doing too much berating? If it doesnt make you a dick, it doesnt make me a dick.
Seriously. Take a farking breath already. Read my two posts you're responding to now, and there's just arguments, arguments, arguments. It's the same kind of arguments, arguments, arguments you cheer me on for when I'm discussing with
conservative posters. And no, they're not about you, not about your person, your character, whatever - they just take issue with the way of thinking in your line of argument here. Disagree with them, be annoyed by them, grow impatient with them - fine. But calling me a dick for them is just.. dick-like. Dont be a dick. 'K?