Very supportive attitude. The fact that there's a continuation of the thread's hijacking seems not to faze you much.
Nor did I see an apology to Shortygurl for the pedantic attack on her for misspelling and not meeting your standard of excellence. This person came here with a request for help. A real shame to see her not coming back.
Is anyone else here having a problem with this sort of approach ?
It's time for me to absent myself from this thread as I don't see her returning.
love can enable a lot of destructive behavior
yes it is a disease it is hereditery and since his father is an alcoholic he is more likely to be an alcoholic himself. I have tried walking away and I am just not sure if I can leave him I love him and I think my leaving him would cause him to drink even more.
I think he is afraid to love someone that he could lose so he turns to alcohol to make it go away.
Thanks that has helped me in a way I guess. I guess he may not want to change unless I really leave him for it then maybe he will realize. ok goodnight
I think in a way he is trying to push me away because he is afraid to love due to what happened when he was younger. He lost a brother he was very close to in a house fire. My opinion is he has not gotten over the fact he lost his brother he can't and won't let go. I think he is afraid to love someone that he could lose so he turns to alcohol to make it go away. I don't know. We have been together for about 6-7 months and when I first met him he was fun to be around and now I feel like he is pushing me away and I don't know why.