LoveMyFamily wrote:the only thing I see from heatwave's post is hatred for indians and their culture.
I think you mistake frustration, even exasperation, for hatred.
Hatred is quite a different beast from yelling, "Oh god I cant believe how much they suck!" when you're confronted with a part of a place's culture that you really dont like.
Also, _Heatwave_ is only saying that Indian culture sucks specifically about this part: the place of women in traditional relations, the whole family thing (how the bride and her family are traditionally supposed to treat the groom's family, etc), the double standards.
Doesnt mean she might not dearly love other parts of Indian culture. But those are not what this thread is about.
Look, I'm Dutch. And I really think the Dutch suck, when it comes to how they treat foreigners and immigrants and how they're egoistic and spoiled fat people who nevertheless whine resentfully about how other people are treated better. And I will damn well say so when that is the topic.
But I dont
hate the Dutch - I'm one myself, and the above doesnt mean there's not also lots that I do like about the Dutch. But when the subject is how they behave towards foreigners and stuff, Im not gonna be expounding on how they also have, you know, lovely painters and how its a great country to be gay in or whatever. I'll just be sounding off on how badly they behave towards foreigners.