@edgarblythe,
I think too many terrible things are happening in my realm. I belong to a retired DOD member society that keeps us up to date on fellow retired colleagues. Most of the time we hear about new grandchildren, wonderful trips people are taking, endeavors they are undertaking. We can contact each other, we have a directory, the Phoenix society arranges trips and social engagements, and I love to keep track of my old buddies.
Since early November, I've been notified of 14 agency people who have died, I called the Phoenix office today about how sad it is and then was told they received 8 more names today. It's a huge Agency, so possibly the numbers are not unusual, but I knew every single person, tomorrow I'll be at the local church to attend another funeral service. I remember most of the people, but
can only remember them as healthy, industrious and too young to die.
But, we age, we will not live forever, just doesn't mean you won't feel an ache when you learn that old colleagues are gone.
I wish I had something that was more cheerful, I'm just going to reflect on what it all means, and get back to a new normal.