Kate - a review briefly. CI, made a comment about the concerns of Pro-lifers. You responded back with a comment including a statement about how all pro-choicers being murderers in retort.
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Kate, I get your point here about generalizations, but your sarcastic comment in truth was the first stone thrown in this long time debate. Pro-choice people have been fighting off this absurd characterization for as long as people have been arguing about this.
I agreed with you about generalizations. I didn't mean to imply you threw the first stone, just that the statement you used, has been used before and is the beginning of this long arguement. Do you understand?
Next, I made an example of how mothers could be better supported to choose to keep their child. A good alternative says almost all parties. I then asked if you saw how much more meaningful being able to choose yes is when compared to the government choosing for you. You replied...
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as i have stated before i view abortion as murder. i don't care about what seems meaningful as much as what i view is morally right. since i view abortion as murder, i believe the govt should be involved (as they are with any thing deemed a crime)
1) You have yet to make a convincing arguement that abortion should be criminal.
2) You have yet to qualify your personal moral standard to be a good standard for law.
3) You have not backed up your claim that the government should be given the licence to make the choice for the mother.
4) Yet you don't care what seems meaningful...
I then posted...
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Kate, honestly I'm disappointed in your responce. I certainly have come to the defence of many pro-lifers as far as generalizations in the past. My girlfriend happens to be pro-life. If we can find comprimise, then certainly there is one.
Which later you will criticize me for NOT coming to the defense of Prolifers, when I have been very forward in my opinion that prolifers are acting sincerely. You even call me a hypocrite. Later you posted...
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obviously we are of the different opinion on what is meaningful. i believe the unborn child's life is more meaningful than the freedom of a mother to abort that child.
Certainly the crux of our arguement. So if we are to talk about this, and if I am to take you seriously, you will have to provide a arguement not based on emotion and religion. Especially if you think abortion should be illegal, and that these mothers should be made criminals.
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As for what is meaningful, you have lost all touch. If you can't see the differnce in a mother choosing to keep her child and a mother being forced, there is no hope for you, and it's disappointing. BTW, don't lecture me about what I believe. I find plenty of meaning in the unborn, I just won't liter it with facism, then parade around singing about how "the ends, fits the means."
Reducing the number of abortions is important, and HOW we do it is NOT trivial.
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i don't believe that rallying for the absolute rights of an unborn child, over the feelings of the mother, means i've lost all touch. nor do i believe that its facism to value human life.
The "absolute" part is the part of concern. It is terribly simple minded and pays no mind to the complexities of pregnancy/parenthood. It's not fasism to value human life, it's fasism to bow down to fear and allow people to destroy our rights for no justifiable reason.
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to say that "these women" have no choice and have to abort is bull.
Nobody is saying this. What is being said is that unfortunately all too often the choice to abort is the rational and educated choice to make given the circumstances. Wanna change that? Help change the circumstances. Wanting to change this, even feeling that you need to change this does not mean that you surender other's rights.
And that's what's disappointing.
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