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When Does Life Begin?

 
 
kate4christ03
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 12:30 pm
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I know you didn't throw the first stone, I'm just saying that I hope you know that the stone you threw has been thrown before by others. For that matter, it was the first stone thrown. You seem to want protection from stereotypes, yet you fail to recognize your perpetuation of those stereotypes, then you call others hypocrites.


i don't want nor need protection from stereotypes. Most people know stereotypes are ignorant. My calling you a hypocrite wasn't a stereotype as i wasn't painting a whole group of people as being hypocritical, just you. and it was hypocricy to overlook the stereotype given to prolifers, yet get fired up when a similar stereotype was made(by me to prove a pt) about prochoicers. and if you would have read my initial post on this, i pointed out how meaningless it was to stereotype in a debate. and as i said bf, i have many friends and family members who are prochoice and i don't view them as evil baby hating murderers.
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I'm curious, how many times do you use the term"pro-abortion?"
i usually say "prochoice"
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As for what is meaningful, you have lost all touch. If you can't see the differnce in a mother choosing to keep her child and a mother being forced, there is no hope for you, and it's disappointing. BTW, don't lecture me about what I believe. I find plenty of meaning in the unborn, I just won't liter it with facism, then parade around singing about how "the ends, fits the means."

i don't believe that rallying for the absolute rights of an unborn child, over the feelings of the mother, means i've lost all touch. nor do i believe that its facism to value human life. to say that "these women" have no choice and have to abort is bull. any young person who finds herself pregnant can have her medical bills paid for the duration of her pregnancy by our taxes ie medicare. or she can have all bills paid for by a couple who wants to adopt her child. and she can anonymously, without recrimation, leave her child at a hospital, no questions asked. and i would like for you to check on stats on the different age groups and reasons women abort. a majority of abortions are done by women in their mid 20's to 30's , who abort multiple times as a means of birth control. that is ridiculous and unnecessary.
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Diest TKO
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 02:15 pm
Kate - a review briefly. CI, made a comment about the concerns of Pro-lifers. You responded back with a comment including a statement about how all pro-choicers being murderers in retort.

I responded...

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Kate, I get your point here about generalizations, but your sarcastic comment in truth was the first stone thrown in this long time debate. Pro-choice people have been fighting off this absurd characterization for as long as people have been arguing about this.


I agreed with you about generalizations. I didn't mean to imply you threw the first stone, just that the statement you used, has been used before and is the beginning of this long arguement. Do you understand?

Next, I made an example of how mothers could be better supported to choose to keep their child. A good alternative says almost all parties. I then asked if you saw how much more meaningful being able to choose yes is when compared to the government choosing for you. You replied...

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as i have stated before i view abortion as murder. i don't care about what seems meaningful as much as what i view is morally right. since i view abortion as murder, i believe the govt should be involved (as they are with any thing deemed a crime)


1) You have yet to make a convincing arguement that abortion should be criminal.
2) You have yet to qualify your personal moral standard to be a good standard for law.
3) You have not backed up your claim that the government should be given the licence to make the choice for the mother.
4) Yet you don't care what seems meaningful...

I then posted...
Diest TKO wrote:

Kate, honestly I'm disappointed in your responce. I certainly have come to the defence of many pro-lifers as far as generalizations in the past. My girlfriend happens to be pro-life. If we can find comprimise, then certainly there is one.


Which later you will criticize me for NOT coming to the defense of Prolifers, when I have been very forward in my opinion that prolifers are acting sincerely. You even call me a hypocrite. Later you posted...

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obviously we are of the different opinion on what is meaningful. i believe the unborn child's life is more meaningful than the freedom of a mother to abort that child.

Certainly the crux of our arguement. So if we are to talk about this, and if I am to take you seriously, you will have to provide a arguement not based on emotion and religion. Especially if you think abortion should be illegal, and that these mothers should be made criminals.

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As for what is meaningful, you have lost all touch. If you can't see the differnce in a mother choosing to keep her child and a mother being forced, there is no hope for you, and it's disappointing. BTW, don't lecture me about what I believe. I find plenty of meaning in the unborn, I just won't liter it with facism, then parade around singing about how "the ends, fits the means."


Reducing the number of abortions is important, and HOW we do it is NOT trivial.

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i don't believe that rallying for the absolute rights of an unborn child, over the feelings of the mother, means i've lost all touch. nor do i believe that its facism to value human life.

The "absolute" part is the part of concern. It is terribly simple minded and pays no mind to the complexities of pregnancy/parenthood. It's not fasism to value human life, it's fasism to bow down to fear and allow people to destroy our rights for no justifiable reason.

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to say that "these women" have no choice and have to abort is bull.

Nobody is saying this. What is being said is that unfortunately all too often the choice to abort is the rational and educated choice to make given the circumstances. Wanna change that? Help change the circumstances. Wanting to change this, even feeling that you need to change this does not mean that you surender other's rights.

And that's what's disappointing.

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kate4christ03
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 02:40 pm
CI wrote
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I see those who continue to advocate for the cell (right to lifers) over the mother as hypocrites of the worst kind. They don't care about the mother or the baby after it's born. They just want to impose their religious belief on a complete stranger who otherwise wouldn't be on their radar screen. They claim every life is precious. Bologne! They haven't done anything for those orphans.

your response
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Kate - a review briefly. CI, made a comment about the concerns of Pro-lifers. You responded back with a comment including a statement about how all pro-choicers being murderers in retort.

his words were more than a "comment about the concerns of prolifers" they were ignorant generalizations, as were mine (which was my point) i don't believe prochoicers are all evil murderers etc. I was pointing out how pointless it is ON both sides to resort to baseless generalizations. and i only called you hypocritical when you said this:
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but your sarcastic comment in truth was the first stone thrown in this long time debate. Pro-choice people have been fighting off this absurd characterization for as long as people have been arguing about this.
Yes, it is an absurd characterization as was CI's yet you didn't say the same to him.

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1) You have yet to make a convincing arguement that abortion should be criminal.
2) You have yet to qualify your personal moral standard to be a good standard for law.
3) You have not backed up your claim that the government should be given the licence to make the choice for the mother.
4) Yet you don't care what seems meaningful...

a baby's heartbeat is evident by about 7 weeks. So it's safe to say that unborn child is a living being. to destroy a living human being is wrong. i think that's convincing enough as an argument against abortion. Im sure that you believe its wrong and the govt should intervene when a child outside of the womb is killed, so why do you call it facist for me to believe the govt should intervene when said child is killed inside the womb. and as i said earlier its ridiculous to say i don't care for what is meaningful. I stand against abortion and *gasp* i also help young teens who find themselves pregnant. so far you have :
1) yet to prove that a baby in the womb is not worthy of the same rights as a baby one minute outside of the womb is afforded.
2) you have yet to qualify your personal beliefs on a woman's right to choose as being more important than a child's right to live
3) given any evidence that you do anything at all to help women who find themselves in a position to abort
4) yet you think i care nothing for what is meaningful
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Nobody is saying this. What is being said is that unfortunately all too often the choice to abort is the rational and educated choice to make given the circumstances. Wanna change that? Help change the circumstances. Wanting to change this, even feeling that you need to change this does not mean that you surender other's rights.

no the choice to abort is the easiest solution not the most rational or educational, nor the most moral. a majority of abortions are done by women (who can get birth control and are choosing to have unprotected sex) who abort bc its not convenient to carry a baby for nine months. and once more, bc you keep ignoring what i've wrote, i do what i can to change the circumstances of those around me who are faced with the choice of aborting or not. but i will always believe and fight for the rights of any child, inside the womb or out, over that of an adult.
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Diest TKO
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 01:53 am
kate4christ03 wrote:

1) yet to prove that a baby in the womb is not worthy of the same rights as a baby one minute outside of the womb is afforded.

Easy. Rights are gradually recieved. Certainly the right to life is first but to assign that right at the moment of conception is arbitrary at best. Being that the unborn requires resources from the mother, that otherwisewould be the mother's, she holds the licence to decide the fate of the child. In short, the mother is the custodian of the unborns rights. Outside of the womb, the child has become a citizen, and with that certain standards of personhood are satisfied. I personally don't draw the line on the moment of birth. I'm for the line being drawn somewhere in the 2nd trimester.
kate4christ03 wrote:

2) you have yet to qualify your personal beliefs on a woman's right to choose as being more important than a child's right to live

A seed is not a tree. Established life intuitively has a greater claim when rights collide. Further, since the mother is the custiodian of the unborn's rights, this is a mute question.
kate4christ03 wrote:

3) given any evidence that you do anything at all to help women who find themselves in a position to abort

I have been a wellness educator for the last 7 years. I have counselled real people dealing with unplanned pregnancy. I have refered many people to many different resources, but moreover, I have worked to help take proactive steps to educate people on contraceptive measures. If you don't think that abortion is often the most rational or educated desicion, I think you lack the real life experiance with this issue. I have helped my friends who have had children, and before they had the child I helped them prepare for single parenthood.
kate4christ03 wrote:

4) yet you think i care nothing for what is meaningful

I don't have an opinion on what you think, I only have a quote.
Kate wrote:
I don't care what seems meaningful...

You've alrealy spoken.

kate4christ03 wrote:

no the choice to abort is the easiest solution not the most rational or educational, nor the most moral. a majority of abortions are done by women (who can get birth control and are choosing to have unprotected sex) who abort bc its not convenient to carry a baby for nine months. and once more, bc you keep ignoring what i've wrote, i do what i can to change the circumstances of those around me who are faced with the choice of aborting or not. but i will always believe and fight for the rights of any child, inside the womb or out, over that of an adult.

I believe you said something about generalizations. A seed is not a tree, and a embryo is not a zygote is not a fetus is not a baby is not a newborn.

Your claim that a embryo is a child by using oversimplfied language is useless. It either speaks to your overexpectations of a clump of cells, or it underrepresents what it is to be a sentient being.

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baddog1
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 06:00 am
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kate4christ03 wrote:

you have yet to qualify your personal beliefs on a woman's right to choose as being more important than a child's right to live


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Diest TKO wrote:

A seed is not a tree. Established life intuitively has a greater claim when rights collide. Further, since the mother is the custiodian of the unborn's rights, this is a mute question.


The 'seed is not a tree' analogy that is used so frequently, is a bad one - as shown by the example provided. Kate wrote "...on a woman's right to choose..." - Deist wrote: "A seed is not a tree...". How many trees utilize their right to choose to abort their living seed?

Ability to reason - is the key.
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Diest TKO
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 10:19 am
Yoiur question is asinine.

The analogy is sound. The tree is a higher order life form and for that matter it's establishment in a a society built on the needs of trees NOT seeds gives it a greater claim if in conflick with a tree. think about how many seeds don't get the required sunlight because they are under a dense canopy of trees. Is this unfair/immoral or just a part of life? the fact is that nature supports that an established life has a greater claim.

But sense I'm in a festive mood, I'll remind you that trees don't have abortions, but their offspring also recieve by nature all the things they need to live. If we were to guarantee that an unborn would recieve everything it needs (along with every other newborn) then you'd have a case to ask such a question, but until then...

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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 02:15 pm
If you could take a freshly fertilized egg and put it into an artificial machine womb or a surrogate mother such as a Chimpanzee then things might be different! That day will come and I bet the pro-life camp will bitch it's immoral or that humans must be 100% natural!

I can hardly wait to see the new-pro life slogans:

Women Don't Kill Your Babies Save Your Egg Each Month!

Men Don't Spill Your Seed You're Killing Babies!

A Monkey baby is better than a Dead Baby!

Or for those pro-lifers that will really hate the new technologies:

God's Babies Do Not Come From Monkeys!

Make Real Babies Not Machine Babies!

I think pro-lifers should be bitching about the immorality of anything that affects natural childbirth including cesareans because anything other than natural child birth cannot be god's will!
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real life
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 02:58 pm
Chumly wrote:
If you could take a freshly fertilized egg and put it into an artificial machine womb or a surrogate mother such as a Chimpanzee then things might be different!


This is patently dishonest.

You do not support the right to life for the unborn in the case of fertilized eggs/embryos in IVF clinics, nor in labs conducting embryonic stem cell research.

To imply that it is only when the unborn is in the womb of a woman that you do not support the unborn's independent right to live is simply false.
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Diest TKO
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 03:34 pm
What does the Pro-life camp have to say about the idea of fetilized eggs being removed and put into cryostasis instead of abortion?

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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 03:58 pm
real life wrote:
Chumly wrote:
If you could take a freshly fertilized egg and put it into an artificial machine womb or a surrogate mother such as a Chimpanzee then things might be different!


This is patently dishonest.

You do not support the right to life for the unborn in the case of fertilized eggs/embryos in IVF clinics, nor in labs conducting embryonic stem cell research.

To imply that it is only when the unborn is in the womb of a woman that you do not support the unborn's independent right to live is simply false.
What makes you think a fertilized egg is an unborn human?
Scrambled eggs don't tales like roast chicken.
What makes you think sperm has independent rights?
I have not seen a bill of rights for sperm.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 04:02 pm
November 4, 2005 (Associated Press) Sperm have Rights. Christian leaders of the Coalition to Protect the Unborn declared today that not only do fetuses have rights, but so do spermatozoa. "Sperm are potential human beings," announced Bishop Roderick Prudehomme. "They must be saved."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bob-burnett/this-just-in-sperm-hav_b_19100.html
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real life
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 04:54 pm
Chumly wrote:
November 4, 2005 (Associated Press) Sperm have Rights. Christian leaders of the Coalition to Protect the Unborn declared today that not only do fetuses have rights, but so do spermatozoa. "Sperm are potential human beings," announced Bishop Roderick Prudehomme. "They must be saved."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bob-burnett/this-just-in-sperm-hav_b_19100.html


Poorly done satire.

Why don't you respond directly to what I said and face your falsehood?

You are pro-abortion whether the unborn resides in a womb or not.

The facade of 'protecting the woman's right to choose' is just a smokescreen for your pro-abortion view.

Do you have any medical evidence that the unborn is NOT a living human being?
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spendius
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 05:03 pm
rl wrote-

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Poorly done satire.


It was not satire rl.

It was irony. Detached irony.

It made me laugh. Especially the "they".

But still the "must" was quite funny as well.

And "saved".

I ask you. With a name like Prudehomme.

Have you no sense of humour?

And a bishop.

Called Rod. For short.
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spendius
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 05:10 pm
But I do think that once the spit has spat on the sputter and clicked human life has begun and is, from that micromoment onwards, something of a sacred thing and I will never deviate from that view unless somebody threatens to shove a red hot poker up my arse if I don't and even then I'll be faking because I'm a wimp.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 06:57 pm
You "pro-lifers" make me laugh too! You ain't doing a good job; not even a half arse job. Here's a message for you; our war in Iraq is responsible for killing innocent Iraqis by the thousands. Your pro-life stance is a huge failure - around the world.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:46 pm
Rainbow Flag Health Services in San Francisco advertises itself as "the first sperm bank in North America to actively recruit gay and bisexual sperm donors."

That ought get the right-wing pro-lifers all antsy!
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neologist
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:50 pm
cicerone imposter wrote:
You "pro-lifers" make me laugh too! You ain't doing a good job; not even a half arse job. Here's a message for you; our war in Iraq is responsible for killing innocent Iraqis by the thousands. Your pro-life stance is a huge failure - around the world.
Wow!

I had no idea!

Pro lifers killing innocent Iraqis.

Go figure.

Thanks for warning us, CI.
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neologist
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:51 pm
Chumly wrote:
Rainbow Flag Health Services in San Francisco advertises itself as "the first sperm bank in North America to actively recruit gay and bisexual sperm donors."

That ought get the right-wing pro-lifers all antsy!
Why?
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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 08:00 pm
Not only are these potential human beings not going to be allowed to mature solely through the loving hand of god, but these hapless unborn are going to be genetically predisposed to be gay, and thus treated like shellfish; mollusk or bi-valve.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 08:15 pm
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The Blair government appointed a controversial retired Anglican bishop as temporary head of its fertility authority. Lord Harries of Pentregarth, formerly Richard Harries, Bishop of Oxford says "I don't regard that very early embryo, which is just a small bundle of multiplying cells, as having the rights of a human being,".......


http://www.australasianbioethics.org/Newsletters/223-2006-10-17.html#israeli
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