old europe wrote:Foxfyre wrote:OE did misrepresent what I said when he left off the qualifier 'pretty much'; however, I gave him the benefit of the doubt that this was inadvertent and did not intend to change my meaning. (And that was a GENEROUS benefit of the doubt considering how often he does misrepresent what I have said.)
Beg your pardon?
old europe wrote:You said that the term was used pretty much universally. You said that the term was in no way denigrating. You said that the term was honest and descriptive.
People, in turn, have argued that usage of that term was in no way universal, and that it was indeed defamatory and denigrating. You're twisting that into "other people dictating what words people are allowed to use".
And the funny thing is that you're the one who always complains about other posters misrepresenting what has been said...
See my post here -->
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I have the feeling that you misrepresent what I've been saying more often than the other way 'round. But I won't complain. I will merely point it out to you, and I'll try to do so in a polite way...
I acknowledge that you did use the term 'pretty much' in that paragraph. Then you followed with:
People, in turn, have argued that usage of that term was in no way universal, That's the phrase I honed in on. Sorry about that. I think, however, that I made a pretty good case that for people closely following the immigration issue, the term is pretty well universally understood, so I disagree that it is
in no way universal.
I do not mind people pointing it out to me when they feel I have misunderstood or mischaracterized them. I actually appreciate when they make that kind of effort to help me understand where they are coming from. Calling me a liar in the process, however, is not polite nor helpful.
I also appreciate people understanding or making an effort to understand where I am coming from instead of presuming to dictate that to me.