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Rethinking Homosexuality

 
 
Montana
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:09 pm
real life wrote:
Montana wrote:
All of them!


Truthfully, have you read it all?


Yes, I have, but it's been a long time. I was born catholic and went through the whole CCD church thing until I was 16, so I read the bible more than once through my younger years.
This is what made me decide that I just couldn't place my faith in these written words or even the church for that matter.
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:14 pm
Anon-Voter wrote:
Like up your ass where the rest of your stinking thinking comes from ...

Anon


Due to the abusive nature of your post, as far as I am concerned this conversation will continue without you.
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Anon-Voter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:16 pm
Montana wrote:
real life wrote:
Montana wrote:
All of them!


Truthfully, have you read it all?


Yes, I have, but it's been a long time. I was born catholic and went through the whole CCD church thing until I was 16, so I read the bible more than once through my younger years.
This is what made me decide that I just couldn't place my faith in these written words or even the church for that matter.


I detest organized religion. I think it's every persons right to believe, but not to judge, and not to demand that others believe the same way!

Anon
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Montana
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:19 pm
I agree, Anon.
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:19 pm
Montana wrote:
real life wrote:
Montana wrote:
All of them!


Truthfully, have you read it all?


Yes, I have, but it's been a long time. I was born catholic and went through the whole CCD church thing until I was 16, so I read the bible more than once through my younger years.
This is what made me decide that I just couldn't place my faith in these written words or even the church for that matter.


I was raised Catholic and went to CCD and we never read the whole Bible. The norm would be that there are large portions of it that you had not read.

I would be very surprised if you had.
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Anon-Voter
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:19 pm
real life wrote:
Anon-Voter wrote:
Like up your ass where the rest of your stinking thinking comes from ...

Anon


Due to the abusive nature of your post, as far as I am concerned this conversation will continue without you.


You're breaking my heart, I'm not sure I can go on ... sob Crying or Very sad

Anon
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:21 pm
Montana wrote:
I agree, Anon.


My church is very unorganized at times, if that makes you feel any better. :wink:
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:23 pm
sozobe wrote:
That the bible states many things quite strongly that, nonetheless, modern people do not follow.

Quote:
"Keep my statutes: do not breed any of your domestic animals with others of a different species; do not sow a field of yours with two different kinds of seed; and do not put on a garment woven with two different kinds of thread.


You don't keep God's statutes. You put on a garment woven with two different kinds of thread. You have decided that, for whatever reason, that particular statute is not consonant with modern life.

I applaud that decision. I don't think it is reasonable that people may only wear clothes made from a single kind of thread. I also don't think it is reasonable that people may only love other people who are of a certain gender.

If you made the decision for one, you can make the decision for the other. Pointing to the bible is hypocritical unless you take every single one of those literally. (Do you shave? Do you clip the hair at your temples? Etc., etc.)


Not all of the Bible is literal. I never said all of it was.
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Montana
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:26 pm
real life wrote:
Montana wrote:
real life wrote:
Montana wrote:
All of them!


Truthfully, have you read it all?


Yes, I have, but it's been a long time. I was born catholic and went through the whole CCD church thing until I was 16, so I read the bible more than once through my younger years.
This is what made me decide that I just couldn't place my faith in these written words or even the church for that matter.


I was raised Catholic and went to CCD and we never read the whole Bible. The norm would be that there are large portions of it that you had not read.

I would be very surprised if you had.


That's why I read it at home. I read it a few times because I didn't understand a lot of it, but by the 2nd time around I got the idea.

are you implying that I'm lying? If I hadn't read it, I'd say so! I'm funny that way ;-)
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Lash
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:33 pm
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
I'm trying to get you to see that society picked up on the sins that less of them were guilty of, and gave this one special weight.

Why hold the gays out for more derision than you assign to yourself?


Why do you assume that I do?

Lash wrote:
You've likely committed as many sins as gay people, right?


Probably more than most. So your point is...........?

Thanks for asking. I'm feeling ultra benevolent; oddly, I don't take offense.

If you and I agree we all sin, why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers? If we sin as much as they do, why can we get married and they can't?
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Montana
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 10:37 pm
Oh my god!!!! It just struck me that I had a child and have never been married Shocked
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 11:02 pm
Lash wrote:
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
I'm trying to get you to see that society picked up on the sins that less of them were guilty of, and gave this one special weight.

Why hold the gays out for more derision than you assign to yourself?


Why do you assume that I do?

Lash wrote:
You've likely committed as many sins as gay people, right?


Probably more than most. So your point is...........?

Thanks for asking. I'm feeling ultra benevolent; oddly, I don't take offense.

If you and I agree we all sin, why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers? If we sin as much as they do, why can we get married and they can't?


I thought we had agreed previously that suicide is an irrational act and that no one is responsible for the action except the one who commits the act. Why do you subtly try to suggest otherwise?

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The marriage thing you and I have discussed previously also. Marriage is what it is. It is the union of one man and one woman.

Homosexuals who want to redefine marriage seem to pretend that 'anybody' but them can get married and therefore they are discriminated against. It's not true.

I can't marry my sister. I can't marry my mother or my aunt. One man cannot marry three separate women . A group of three men and two women can't marry. A man cannot marry his pet dog.

But there are people who think that ALL of those options should be defined as 'marriage'.

There are all kinds of restrictions on who can and cannot marry.
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Lash
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 11:21 pm
I don't do anything subtly. I say exactly what I mean. If it makes you feel guilty, that's all you, not from me. I was characterizing them, not you.

I don't recall discussing marriage with you.

Two consenting adults sounds about right.
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real life
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 11:33 pm
Lash wrote:
I don't do anything subtly. I say exactly what I mean. If it makes you feel guilty, that's all you, not from me. I was characterizing them, not you.

I don't recall discussing marriage with you.

Two consenting adults sounds about right.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. But it's clear that you would like to imply that someone other than the person who commits suicide bears some responsibility for it when you make statements such as

Lash wrote:
why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers?


Only they can 'make' themselves miserable, Lash. How you or I or anyone feels and thinks is a result of their own choice. Would you agree?

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Regarding marriage, we have been over it. If you don't recall then you have a short memory. It's not that long ago.

(How old you say you're getting to be? Laughing)

One man and one woman is what marriage is and has been for centuries. Just because a few PC folks would like to change it is not sufficient reason for doing so.

Your 'two consenting adults' standard would allow siblings to marry, also a parent could marry his/her offspring at age 18. Is that what you support?
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Lash
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 11:48 pm
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
I don't do anything subtly. I say exactly what I mean. If it makes you feel guilty, that's all you, not from me. I was characterizing them, not you.

I don't recall discussing marriage with you.

Two consenting adults sounds about right.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. But it's clear that you would like to imply that someone other than the person who commits suicide bears some responsibility for it when you make statements such as

Lash wrote:
why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers?

Wrong. Did you see "we," meaning society, in that sentence. I have no problem telling you what I think. Your guilt is bothering your conscience. I said, nor meant, any such thing. That heartbeat sounds like a bass drum, doesn't it?
Only they can 'make' themselves miserable, Lash. How you or I or anyone feels and thinks is a result of their own choice. Would you agree?

Wrong. You know good and well that people terrorizing you and humiliating you at school or in social situations can be brutally cruel and make one's life miserable. Children have killed themselves because of this type of bullying. And, no. Homosexuality is very rarely a choice. That's a cop out for people, who relish a chance to condemn.
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Regarding marriage, we have been over it. If you don't recall then you have a short memory. It's not that long ago.

Must not have been of any significance.

One man and one woman is what marriage is and has been for centuries. Just because a few PC folks would like to change it is not sufficient reason for doing so.
PC is about words. Gay marriage is about fulfilling the documents this nation was founded on.
Your 'two consenting adults' standard would allow siblings to marry, also a parent could marry his/her offspring at age 18. Is that what you support?
Not today. Today, I support gay people having the rights promised them in the Declaration.


It is pure evil for you to discount the torture these people have to endure--and blame them for how it affects them.
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Montana
 
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Reply Mon 13 Mar, 2006 11:53 pm
Lash
Right on! You go girl!
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 12:11 am
Lash wrote:
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
I don't do anything subtly. I say exactly what I mean. If it makes you feel guilty, that's all you, not from me. I was characterizing them, not you.

I don't recall discussing marriage with you.

Two consenting adults sounds about right.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. But it's clear that you would like to imply that someone other than the person who commits suicide bears some responsibility for it when you make statements such as

Lash wrote:
why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers?

Wrong. Did you see "we," meaning society, in that sentence. I have no problem telling you what I think. Your guilt is bothering your conscience. I said, nor meant, any such thing. That heartbeat sounds like a bass drum, doesn't it?
Only they can 'make' themselves miserable, Lash. How you or I or anyone feels and thinks is a result of their own choice. Would you agree?

Wrong. You know good and well that people terrorizing you and humiliating you at school or in social situations can be brutally cruel and make one's life miserable. Children have killed themselves because of this type of bullying. And, no. Homosexuality is very rarely a choice. That's a cop out for people, who relish a chance to condemn.
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Regarding marriage, we have been over it. If you don't recall then you have a short memory. It's not that long ago.

Must not have been of any significance.

One man and one woman is what marriage is and has been for centuries. Just because a few PC folks would like to change it is not sufficient reason for doing so.
PC is about words. Gay marriage is about fulfilling the documents this nation was founded on.
Your 'two consenting adults' standard would allow siblings to marry, also a parent could marry his/her offspring at age 18. Is that what you support?
Not today. Today, I support gay people having the rights promised them in the Declaration.


It is pure evil for you to discount the torture these people have to endure--and blame them for how it affects them.


Where in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution or any of the founding documents of this country is marriage for homosexuals even hinted at?

There is not even a trace of what you claim exists.

PC is about words and words mean things. Words determine behavior. You have not distanced yourself from the PC mania that is so ridiculous, but have placed yourself squarely in the PC camp.

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Let's take a look for comparison sake at a group that has suffered MUCH more persecution and discrimination than homosexuals ever have.

Black people in America have endured much more in the way of discrimination and injustice. Why don't we see the HUGE suicide numbers in the black population? Very simple.

To pretend that you are not blaming everyone else for suicide among homosexuals is ludicrous. Suicide is an irrational act, whether you truly believe it or not. Only the person committing an irrational act bears responsibility for it.

But there's a long line of folks who want to shift blame for their actions in life and your 'logic' can accomodate them all.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 01:00 am
real life wrote:
Where in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution or any of the founding documents of this country is marriage for homosexuals even hinted at?
Where in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution or any of the founding documents of this country is marriage for people with the name Real Life even hinted at? Nope not there, no marriage for you!
real life wrote:
Black people in America have endured much more in the way of discrimination and injustice.
It's just getting better and better. So you are saying homosexuals have been less hard done by than blacks. Where is your proof? I would love to see your proof! What about black homosexuals, I guess there's none of them, eh?
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Lash
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 07:00 am
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
I don't do anything subtly. I say exactly what I mean. If it makes you feel guilty, that's all you, not from me. I was characterizing them, not you.

I don't recall discussing marriage with you.

Two consenting adults sounds about right.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. But it's clear that you would like to imply that someone other than the person who commits suicide bears some responsibility for it when you make statements such as

Lash wrote:
why make these particular people so miserable because of how we treat them, that they kill themselves in astronomical numbers?

Wrong. Did you see "we," meaning society, in that sentence. I have no problem telling you what I think. Your guilt is bothering your conscience. I said, nor meant, any such thing. That heartbeat sounds like a bass drum, doesn't it?
Only they can 'make' themselves miserable, Lash. How you or I or anyone feels and thinks is a result of their own choice. Would you agree?

Wrong. You know good and well that people terrorizing you and humiliating you at school or in social situations can be brutally cruel and make one's life miserable. Children have killed themselves because of this type of bullying. And, no. Homosexuality is very rarely a choice. That's a cop out for people, who relish a chance to condemn.
------------------------

Regarding marriage, we have been over it. If you don't recall then you have a short memory. It's not that long ago.

Must not have been of any significance.

One man and one woman is what marriage is and has been for centuries. Just because a few PC folks would like to change it is not sufficient reason for doing so.
PC is about words. Gay marriage is about fulfilling the documents this nation was founded on.
Your 'two consenting adults' standard would allow siblings to marry, also a parent could marry his/her offspring at age 18. Is that what you support?
Not today. Today, I support gay people having the rights promised them in the Declaration.


It is pure evil for you to discount the torture these people have to endure--and blame them for how it affects them.


Where in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution or any of the founding documents of this country is marriage for homosexuals even hinted at?
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

PC is about words and words mean things. Words determine behavior. You have not distanced yourself from the PC mania that is so ridiculous, but have placed yourself squarely in the PC camp.

I like the Declaration of Independence. I like equality. I despise people like you, who condemn other people, and blame them for finding a way to escape a tortured, miserable life. PC isn't even in the universe of this issue. They are people, and they deserve equal rights, not special rights. You are the one recieving special rights. YOU'RE PC! LOL!! You must think that charge bothers me. What bothers me is that people like you exist.

To pretend that you are not blaming everyone else for suicide among homosexuals is ludicrous. Suicide is an irrational act, whether you truly believe it or not. Only the person committing an irrational act bears responsibility for it.
They commit suicide because of how society treats them

If society accepted them, it wouldn't happen.

Therefore, suicide by homosexuals is almost exclusively caused by their lack of acceptance.

Nothing you say to try to deflect that truth will be accepted by anyone.

But there's a long line of folks who want to shift blame for their actions in life and your 'logic' can accomodate them all.
What a disgusting excuse for a human being.


I hope karma visits you soon.
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Lash
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 07:10 am
Meanwhile, I have good news for everyone. Though you may be raped, only you can 'make' yourself be raped.

Though you may be beaten, only you can 'make' yourself be beaten.

Though you may be mugged, only you can 'make' yourself mugged.

Real Life says if you just ignore it, you'll be fine. If not, it is YOUR fault.

I've never wanted to tell someone to go to hell more in my life. What a shrivelled husk of humankind.
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