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Rethinking Homosexuality

 
 
Anon-Voter
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 01:56 pm
dyslexia wrote:
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
Thanks for setting yourself up!

Sources

Why do you hate gays?


Why do you incorrectly assume this?

probably just a wild guess not unlike "I guess the sun will come up tomorrow"


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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 01:57 pm
dyslexia wrote:
real life wrote:
Lash wrote:
Thanks for setting yourself up!

Sources

Why do you hate gays?


Why do you incorrectly assume this?

probably just a wild guess not unlike "I guess the sun will come up tomorrow"


The 'wild' part would be correct, since you have produced no evidence to back it up.
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Lash
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 01:58 pm
You produced it for me.
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 02:06 pm
Lash wrote:
You produced it for me.


Your 'logic' has deteriorated to mere unsubstantiated accusations.
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Lash
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 02:26 pm
You are seen for what you are.

No further requirements.
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 02:36 pm
Lash wrote:
You are seen for what you are.

No further requirements.


Evidence of your utter failure to substantiate your accusations.
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Lash
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 02:38 pm
She dodged soz's questions, and ignores my sources for the facts I presented.

Just because YOUR eyes are closed doesn't mean the rest of us can't see.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 02:50 pm
real life wrote:
Care to give us a hint which of the several dozen links actually reference suicide and homosexuality?


ehBeth wrote:
Some more research and numbers <lots of links in the article as well to the sources of numbers>

Sociology of Death: Suicide

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The very field of sociology was in part founded on the discovery that suicide rates are as much a sociological phenomenon as they are psychological.

Around the turn of the century, French sociologist Emile Durkheim found that single people were more likely to be victims than married individuals, Protestants more likely than Catholics, urban residents more likely than rural folks. Arguing that suicide was related to the nature of the bonds between self and society, Durkheim argued that either excessive or deficient levels of integration and regulation lead to four "ideal types" of suicide:

egoistic: perhaps the most prevalent form in the United States, is the result of too little social integration, such as the suicide of a retired elderly widower;

altruistic: the consequence of excessive integration, such as deaths of a Japanese kamikaze pilot during World War II or the self-sacrifice of an Indian suttee, where a widow throws herself upon her husband's funeral pyre;

anomic: results from too little regulation or the shattering of one ties with society, such as with divorce or unemployment;

fatalistic: this form is the result of excessive regulation coupled with high personal needs to control one's environment, as when a highly motivated college student takes his own life upon failing a critical exam.

<snip>

Bottom line: suicide is a highly complex phenomenon that involves the interactions between genetic, biochemical, psychological, societal, and cultural factors.


real life, is it your belief that homosexuals commit suicide for different reasons than people who are not homosexual? If you have that belief, do you have any 'unbiased' sources to support it?
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Chumly
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:09 pm
sozobe wrote:
But black people have one important difference -- black people are almost always born into black families, and often into black communities. They are able to get support from people just like them from the very beginning. Gay and lesbian people often do not have that when they are most vulnerable. Often the parents are appalled and upset and the teen feels like a failure. The community (especially as represented by their peers, school, etc.) is often the source of oppression and discrimination, rather than a balm.
Very good point, although hasn't there been much improvement in support and understanding the last 100 years in North America?
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:11 pm
ehBeth wrote:
real life, is it your belief that homosexuals commit suicide for different reasons than people who are not homosexual?


Hi ehBeth,

No.

As I have stated, I consider suicide to be an irrational act (whether one is homosexual or heterosexual).

Therefore, the concept of 'reason' or 'reasons' for suicide has no meaning.

There is no 'reason' for suicide. It is an unreasoned, an irrational act.

That is why anyone counseling a suicidal person will say "Don't do it."

You don't say "You are right. Suicide is your best (or only) option." That is never the case.

No one other than the person committing an irrational act can bear responsibility in whole or in part, direct or indirectly, for the commission of an irrational act.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:20 pm
So, in other words you're not actually interested in the response to this.

real life wrote:
Where does it reference homosexuality and suicide on this CDC link?


If you don't care why people commit suicide, or what can be done to prevent it, there's really no point in me giving you any further 'clues'.

Which I kinda suspected, but it's helpful of you to clarify it.

~~~~~~~~

Some people like science and statistics. Others go with a mood. <shrug>
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:26 pm
real life wrote:
As I have stated, I consider suicide to be an irrational act (whether one is homosexual or heterosexual).

Therefore, the concept of 'reason' or 'reasons' for suicide has no meaning.

There is no 'reason' for suicide. It is an unreasoned, an irrational act.

That is why anyone counseling a suicidal person will say "Don't do it."

You don't say "You are right. Suicide is your best (or only) option." That is never the case.

No one other than the person committing an irrational act can bear responsibility in whole or in part, direct or indirectly, for the commission of an irrational act.



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There is no 'reason' for suicide. It is an unreasoned, an irrational act.


Not necessarily. I can think of a number of reasons why a person might rationally consider suicide.

They have a painful, debilitating disease, which is not going to get better. They want to end their life before the quality of their life becomes intolerable for them.

They are in a situation (POW, for example) where they believe that death is better than continuing what they are going through.


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That is why anyone counseling a suicidal person will say "Don't do it."


In most cases, you are correct. Most counselors would want to discourage a person from committing suicide. That does not mean that the counselor is necessarily advising the approprite course of action for his client.


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You don't say "You are right. Suicide is your best (or only) option." That is never the case.


I think that it would be entirely presumptious for a person to say that to a suicidal person, as a blanket statement. In most cases, I would agree with you. But, bottom line, it is up to each individual if he wants to continue with his life.

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No one other than the person committing an irrational act can bear responsibility in whole or in part, direct or indirectly, for the commission of an irrational act.


True, but your assumption is that suicide is ALWAYS an irrational act. I disagree with your supposition.
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:28 pm
ehBeth wrote:
So, in other words you're not actually interested in the response to this.

real life wrote:
Where does it reference homosexuality and suicide on this CDC link?


If you don't care why people commit suicide, or what can be done to prevent it, there's really no point in me giving you any further 'clues'.

Which I kinda suspected, but it's helpful of you to clarify it.

~~~~~~~~

Some people like science and statistics. Others go with a mood. <shrug>


I am interested to see if CDC takes the 'blame others' approach that some in this thread have championed.

I think prevention efforts are well worth it because every human life is infinitely valuable and precious.

But prevention efforts are headed the wrong direction if someone other than the person responsible is made a 'target' for blame.
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Chumly
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:39 pm
real life wrote:
But prevention efforts are headed the wrong direction if someone other than the person responsible is made a 'target' for blame.
If a violent mother abuses her daughter for 10 years due to lesbian inclinations, and the daughter subsequently commits suicide, the mother should not have blame? I have a bridge in Brooklyn I could sell you...
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:53 pm
Chumly wrote:
real life wrote:
But prevention efforts are headed the wrong direction if someone other than the person responsible is made a 'target' for blame.
If a violent mother abuses her daughter for 10 years due to lesbian inclinations, and the daughter subsequently commits suicide, the mother should not have blame? I have a bridge in Brooklyn I could sell you...


There are a lot of things the mother could be charged with in this case. If sexual abuse was a part of the situation then rape or attempted rape is possible. Depending on how 'violent' , she could even be charged with attempted murder. I am not easy on child abusers, she should face many decades of jail time.

The difference is that these are consequences she should face WHETHER OR NOT the daughter commits or even attempts suicide.

(Now I am waiting to see if you get trashed as a homophobe, because you made the mom a lesbian.)
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 03:55 pm
real life wrote:
(Now I am waiting to see if you get trashed as a homophobe, because you made the mom a lesbian.)


My understanding of Chumley's example is that the daughter is the one with 'tendencies'.

No physical abuse.

Now what.

~~~~~~~~

Looks like the bridge has a buyer.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 04:02 pm
rl is sticking with his guns that all suicide is a "sin". I remember arguing (inas much as one could argue with an un) Sister Attila that Id heard that many Japanes commited suicide rather than be captured by the Yanks. Also, they flew their planes into our battleships and became weapons. Sister Attila , never missed a beat, "Its always a sin" , she said, and then proceeded to break my knuckles with her holy shillalah.
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real life
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 04:04 pm
ehBeth wrote:
real life wrote:
(Now I am waiting to see if you get trashed as a homophobe, because you made the mom a lesbian.)


My understanding of Chumley's example is that the daughter is the one with 'tendencies'.

No physical abuse.

Now what.

~~~~~~~~

Looks like the bridge has a buyer.


A 'violent mother who abuses' sounds like physical abuse to me. Why do you say no?
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Chumly
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 04:05 pm
I agree the mom should be held accountable for her actions. Nevertheless I think you would find in a trial by jury that her crimes would be considered considerably more heinous if the daughter committed suicide on account of the mother's actions. I think you would find it not uncommon to have considerably harsher charges laid due the daughter's suicide than if the daughter had not committed suicide.

I am not sure what you mean when you say "Now I am waiting to see if you get trashed as a homophobe, because you made the mom a lesbian."
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Setanta
 
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Reply Tue 14 Mar, 2006 04:05 pm
Brothers and Sisters of Charity, eh? I know them well . . . "real life" shows just as much breadth and depth of understanding here as he does when the topic is evolution . . . it's been quite a ride . . .
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