The only way I would use a video tape, is if Mister turned to me and told me that I was absolutly wrong and we ended up in a huge fight about it.
That is why i called it a secondary tactic.
but i dont expect that kind of behavior from him. Not in the least. It would surprise me if this isnt solved with a simple
" hey.. you know what dear? this is what I have been seeing lately......."
Contrary to his conversational roles, he is a pretty easy going shy man. not aggressive in anyway.
Mr soz (
for some reason that sounds funny) had said that -- E.G. noted that it's even more likely that Mr. Wolf expects you to just interrupt if you have something to say, and that he takes it as a go-ahead if you don't interrupt---
and more I think about it, I think this is exactly right.
His communication style with his mother before his dad died, and even now after words.. is sort of the way his father did.
He presents the conversation subject
he fuels it and he ends it.
No break to allow any other subject..
it is like listening to someones constant train of thought.
Wich is why I am a little uncomfortable with bringing it up WHEN it happens.
It takes Mr a good 1/2 hour to get his train of thought slowed enough to do anything other then talk.
What I am afraid of is that it would appear as an attack on the SUBJECT , instead of a concern, or an issue.
And its not the subject. Not at all.
hmm.. i think i will remember to say that to him too...