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My secret I can never tell, my one desire

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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Fri 28 Oct, 2005 10:39 am
Not really.... lol... he is just a friend
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nimh
 
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Reply Fri 28 Oct, 2005 10:41 am
yeah, but you told him right? so even if he now is definitely just a friend, he knows you care about him more than that.

not very nice of him then to go & be talking to you about his new flame ... cant he take your feelings into account a bit more than that?
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Fri 28 Oct, 2005 10:43 am
He was drunk when I told him, he claims he doesn't remember anything from that night... I just think he doesn't want to hurt me.... and alot of stuff went down...

He is doing what he does best... being my best friend... it hurts me deep down but I will never let him see that
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nimh
 
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Reply Fri 28 Oct, 2005 12:39 pm
well, its your life, and you know him/them best ... but it seems to me you tend to do a lot of silent sufferin' & self-sacrifice for friends who dont always particularly seem to be takin much of your feelings or interests into account..
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kingofmen
 
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Reply Thu 3 Nov, 2005 06:37 am
my ideas
to Crazielady420 :
u didn't sound he is very important to u because it didn't take you much time to get over it. if i were u , i would suffer a lot when he refused my feeling for him.
i think u invented this story from the beginning, am i right ?
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Thu 3 Nov, 2005 07:56 am
Re: my ideas
kingofmen wrote:
to Crazielady420 :
u didn't sound he is very important to u because it didn't take you much time to get over it. if i were u , i would suffer a lot when he refused my feeling for him.
i think u invented this story from the beginning, am i right ?


No I didn't invent this story.... I am still very hurt over all of this, but I know I have to move on and do what is best for me and for him. He has found a new girl and he doesn't care for me like he does hurt... I am not going to try and change him. If that is what makes him happy then I am happy that he is happy.

I just stopped caring because I am sick of feeling the pain of the hurt. It kills me inside so I have learned to just let go. Sometimes it is better this way.
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Eva
 
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Reply Thu 3 Nov, 2005 10:18 pm
You're going to have to change your screen name. That made perfect sense, cl.
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Fri 4 Nov, 2005 09:09 am
Eva wrote:
You're going to have to change your screen name. That made perfect sense, cl.


Thank you Eva
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tahiti1031
 
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Reply Sun 4 Dec, 2005 05:04 pm
whatever will be, will be
crazylady, i understand where you are coming from. I also see where I am at and I am now happily married for years yet, still have that special friend w/ a relationship mirroring yours (highschool sweetheart, promdate, confidant).

I see my life as perhaps it could have been yours and we never saw eye to eye on our true feelings. We are both contently married to others and did we a. let chance pass us by or b. we honestly knew our feelings from the start and WHAT IS MEANT TO BE, WILL BE. That is my friend's opinion. 11 years later, he and I are still deep-rooted friends (he's like a best girlfriend to me but he's a guy) and yet...we are both married to others.

Either way, you have to let this guy know what you truly feel and then....whatever will be, will be. God has a reason for everything!
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mikey5time
 
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Reply Sun 4 Dec, 2005 07:39 pm
I vote you stop dating.

Why?

Because you don't seem to be able to make a rational decision on your own.

You ask for help on the internet, ignore the help, ignore common sense and do your own thing, **** something up, then come whining about how horrible life is.

Seriously, if you can't pull your own **** together, you shouldn't put someone else in a position that they have to.

Get off whatever medication your on, get grounded, then worry about getting laid.

Peace
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2005 07:56 am
mikey5time wrote:
I vote you stop dating.

Why?

Because you don't seem to be able to make a rational decision on your own.

You ask for help on the internet, ignore the help, ignore common sense and do your own thing, **** something up, then come whining about how horrible life is.

Seriously, if you can't pull your own **** together, you shouldn't put someone else in a position that they have to.

Get off whatever medication your on, get grounded, then worry about getting laid.

Peace


I must say you are quite wrong.... I ask for advice from people I trust on the internet.... I don't ignore common sense whatsoever... you don't know how exactly I have dealt with the situation... you just see what you want to see...

I don't think life is horrible at all, in fact I love life more than anything.... I don't think I put anyone in a position as to where they need to pull my life together for me....

And the only meds I am on are for my heart.... I am grounded and I am most def. not worrying about getting laid...

Maybe you should pull your head out of your ass and figure out the entire situation... BTW this situation has been over and dealt with for a long while now... I decided to keep a strictly platonic friendship... in order not to ruin what we have.... Key words I decided! Not anyone from the internet...

Have a nice day Laughing
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Questioner
 
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Reply Mon 5 Dec, 2005 09:03 am
mikey5time wrote:
I vote you stop dating.

Why?

Because you don't seem to be able to make a rational decision on your own.

You ask for help on the internet, ignore the help, ignore common sense and do your own thing, **** something up, then come whining about how horrible life is.

Seriously, if you can't pull your own **** together, you shouldn't put someone else in a position that they have to.

Get off whatever medication your on, get grounded, then worry about getting laid.

Peace


Rolling Eyes
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Crazielady420
 
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Reply Sun 29 May, 2011 07:04 pm
Holy Wow! I was just going back and reading my old topics (before Kids, marriage and Maturity) and I found this!

Man oh Man the drama! Fast forward 6 years, he is still a good friend, the godfather to my oldest child and still with the girl he met a week later. Everything was swept under the rug and we pretend, to this day, that nothing ever happened.

Very glad I chose the path I did. Funny how much we grow as time goes on. I am reading my own posts and realizing the advice I would have given myself then, if I only knew!
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 31 May, 2011 06:56 am
Whoa . . .
If this guy is going thru 3 girls in one week, then he likes the chase. (Like Liz Taylor said, "It's not in the having, it's in the getting."

He is paying a lot of attention to you - MAYBE because you have not been one of his conquests.

I'd set back and watch him. If he feels like you do, he will STOP all behavior with other girls and turn to you.
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