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Sun 10 Dec, 2023 07:44 pm
I am a young man with high functioning ASD. Basically Asperger’s syndrome. I have dated a girl for about two months. Very brief relationship. I ended it a couple days ago and it was amicable. We ended on good terms and she said that she wants to remain friends. I said of course. However, I don’t think she knows that she was my first time sexually. She asked how long before her I had sex a couple of times but I usually gave a BS answer like “it’s been awhile”. She’s a great girl. Very understanding of my ASD during the relationship. Should she know she was my first? I don’t know exactly how important it is for someone to know something like this about a partner. Thanks in advance. Any further questions about the details of the relationship I will be happy to answer. Within reason of course.
What would be the objective of this revelation in a relationship that has ended?
"I've been knitting for many years; and by the by: you took my cherry."
I don't think she needs to know - why would she? Of what benefit would that knowledge be? It's completely irrelevant, especially since the relationship is over.