Fri 9 Dec, 2022 05:41 am
So my husband and I are separated, we both had emotional affairs with other people. I caught him emotionally cheating , and he caught me. It’s a big mess. He’s been very abusive for years, physically, emotionally , financially…you name it. We both made not great choices about having emotional affairs. I KNOW this.
He moved out a month ago so we could “work” on the marriage. We agreed to go to counselling in April (but we can’t get along at all) I asked him if he’d be willing to go sooner and he said “NO, I feel like I always have to compromise and I won’t go sooner”
He has me turn my location on , but he won’t turn his on, he tells me he can stop by my house that I rent anytime he wants …but that I can’t stop by his. When we were living together after he found out what happened , he got a privacy screen for his phone , now that he’s moved out, when I drop off our son, son asks for his phone, he gives him phone and he no longer has a privacy screen.
My gut is telling me he’s having women over there. I know it’s wrong but I feel this way because I notice some behaviours I used to have , in the past.
Is he cheating ? Or am I just paranoid?
@Bmerri89,
Why should you care? You're finally away from an abuser.
@jespah,
It almost sounds like Stockholm Syndrome.
@Bmerri89,
Divorce him. It's not working.
@Bmerri89,
Bmerri89 wrote:
Is he cheating ? Or am I just paranoid?
Who cares! Why would you have someone back that has physically, emotionally and financially abused you? Be happy that this was an easy solution to get rid of this bastard! Run and run far away!
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