I think I am in trouble as I find myself somewhat in agreement again with someone from the "I hate Bush" side.
I agree that the issue with her is no longer her son, but Bush's refusal to meet with her. But here is where I bet we would diverge Candidone. I find it rather pompous for her to believe that she has a right to walk up and demand to see the president. Sure, Bush could meet with her, but then what does he do when every other parent whose child dies in military service (not just in Iraq, mind you) demands to meet with him?
The president has met with her. So now she wants to meet with him again, for what purpose? To get an explaination from him? Does she think he will tell her more than he has told the rest of the country?
I think whether she realizes it or intended it, she is being used by those who have been against this war from day one to make headlines. And that indeed is the shame of it all.