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Sun 16 Oct, 2022 03:14 pm
My wife of 20 years may be cheating. I have found lingerie in her drawer that she did not buy with me, nor has she worn it for me. I have found a small sex toy with charging cable in a winter coat pocket that she hasn’t worn yet this year along with a little spray bottle of something called “Raw Chemistry “ that I have never smelled her wearing. And she is using different emails for social media.
Do I kick her to the curb?
@Mrworried,
What are you doing going through her things??
Why not have a conversation with her and discuss your fears? Talk to your wife.
Listen to Mame.
This started out with you invading her privacy.
Your clues are circumstantial to nothing in particular.
You may be trying to fix the unbroken. I think it says more about a loss of communication between you two. Whatever you do: do NOT confront her on this. Maybe get rid of the suspicion and try some appreciation for her putting up with you for twenty years.
It might be just the way I tend to see things - but I read a subtext here that maybe you consider cheating yourself and are looking for justification?
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