Is it wrong to never mention you’re married to women?

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I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong. They never ask if I’m married. I don’t wear a wedding ring because I don’t like jewelry. I tell them about my kids and future plans. I guess I do use the word I a lot. Though I’m happily married. I have thought about cheating and it would be easy for me to because of my profession.

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@Pauldzikowski ,

Why don't you ask your wife?

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@jespah,

I would never tell my wife. I try to talk to these women when is no one is around and don’t tell anyone I’m talking to them. Too many people make assumptions and gossip.

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@Pauldzikowski ,

In what context. I don't need to know if my co-workers are married or not. If I am hitting on someone in a bar, then it might be relevant.

If you aren't planning to cheat, then who cares?

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@maxdancona,

What if you visit someone at their work to talk to them. Do I need to say I’m married?

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@Pauldzikowski ,

You're being really vague.

Are you visiting them to hit on them, or to discuss work matters?

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@Pauldzikowski ,

It is morally wrong to deceive someone.

If you plan to have sex with these woman, you should tell them that you are married. If you plan to lead these woman to believe that they can have a romantic relationship with you, you should tell them that you are married.

Otherwise it doesn't matter.

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@cherrie,

I don’t work with them. We don’t talk about work. We talk about life and future plans/goals.

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@Pauldzikowski ,

Pauldzikowski wrote:

I would never tell my wife.

Why not?

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@Pauldzikowski ,

Hi Paul - you say it would be easy to sleep with them because of your preofession.

As a matter of interest, what is your profession?

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@chai2,

Too risky. I don’t think she would understand.

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@dingo-20,

Police officer

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@Pauldzikowski ,

Pauldzikowski wrote:

Too risky. I don’t think she would understand.

Well then, you should introduce her to these women first. I mean why wouldn’t you?

Also, I’d think your female friends would want a chance to meet your wife.

That way, they’d get to know you better and it would enhance your conversations with them.

I think you’re really selling your wife and friends short.

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