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Is it wrong to never mention you’re married to women?

 
 
Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 12:04 pm
I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong. They never ask if I’m married. I don’t wear a wedding ring because I don’t like jewelry. I tell them about my kids and future plans. I guess I do use the word I a lot. Though I’m happily married. I have thought about cheating and it would be easy for me to because of my profession.
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 12:32 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
Why don't you ask your wife?
Pauldzikowski
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 02:14 pm
@jespah,
I would never tell my wife. I try to talk to these women when is no one is around and don’t tell anyone I’m talking to them. Too many people make assumptions and gossip.
maxdancona
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 02:44 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
In what context. I don't need to know if my co-workers are married or not. If I am hitting on someone in a bar, then it might be relevant.

If you aren't planning to cheat, then who cares?


Pauldzikowski
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 07:42 pm
@maxdancona,
What if you visit someone at their work to talk to them. Do I need to say I’m married?
cherrie
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 10:43 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
You're being really vague.

Are you visiting them to hit on them, or to discuss work matters?
maxdancona
 
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Reply Sat 12 Dec, 2020 11:17 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
It is morally wrong to deceive someone.

If you plan to have sex with these woman, you should tell them that you are married. If you plan to lead these woman to believe that they can have a romantic relationship with you, you should tell them that you are married.

Otherwise it doesn't matter.
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Pauldzikowski
 
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Reply Sun 13 Dec, 2020 11:58 am
@cherrie,
I don’t work with them. We don’t talk about work. We talk about life and future plans/goals.
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chai2
 
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Reply Mon 14 Dec, 2020 12:21 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
Pauldzikowski wrote:

I would never tell my wife.


Why not?
dingo-20
 
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Reply Mon 14 Dec, 2020 02:56 pm
@Pauldzikowski ,
Hi Paul - you say it would be easy to sleep with them because of your preofession.

As a matter of interest, what is your profession?
Pauldzikowski
 
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Reply Mon 14 Dec, 2020 06:52 pm
@chai2,
Too risky. I don’t think she would understand.
Pauldzikowski
 
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Reply Mon 14 Dec, 2020 07:08 pm
@dingo-20,
Police officer
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chai2
 
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Reply Tue 15 Dec, 2020 09:22 am
@Pauldzikowski ,
Pauldzikowski wrote:

Too risky. I don’t think she would understand.


Well then, you should introduce her to these women first. I mean why wouldn’t you?

Also, I’d think your female friends would want a chance to meet your wife.

That way, they’d get to know you better and it would enhance your conversations with them.

I think you’re really selling your wife and friends short.
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