@glitterbag,
That's my experience, too. They tend to be particularly nasty to those like you and me, who enlisted.
I signed two years after my exposure to the draft, and my wife spent 28 years in dangerous places like Northern Thailand where there were VC sapper attacks, in Laos with General Vang Pao, Mauritania during which she was the acting station chief during a armed dispute over the then government.
She has better war stories than I do.
It slays me how these patriots with no service in their game knock us, the ones who put skin in the game to support the Flag, the Constitution (they mostly are ignorant of) and the Republic.