@John987654321,
as in all things related to people... in particularly women, though there are always exception... but the general rule is...
they like your attention if they like you... if they don't like you, you're being rude, sexually predatory, etc. so be aware that giving attention isn't bad, but giving unwanted attention can result in criminal charges.
having said that, a woman's mind can be changed... it's not necessarily a bad thing.. b/c that also means you can change a woman's mind, if you know what she likes and dislikes before you find out. it's a bit of a hit or miss, but it's okay... its like a baseball game... you're the batter and you present yourself.. and if she likes you, you continue... and if she doesn't, you're out... either before you even get to run or mebbe at each of the bases... and im' not referring to bases like places on her body you can reach... but rather, stages in your relationship where homerun = long term relationship.
actually, 3rd base is long term relationship. homerun is marriage, if that's your ultimate goal.