Lash wrote:What was their marriage like, keltic?
What a desperate remark.
It is amazing how the conservative mind works.
From time immemorial, when a life-and-death decision had to be made and one spouse could not make it, the other spouse made it for them. In fact, the expression "Notify the next-of-kin" has become synonymous with either death or grave decisions.
The reason? Among others, because spouses say things to each other that they don't say to other people-even their parents and siblings. So the spouse is judged the one person most able to speak for the other.
Now, when the next-of-kin makes a decision that they don't like, suddenly conservatives think they have the right to change the law and thousands of years of tradition by asking, "What was their marriage like?".
They were living together as husband and wife. That's all you have to know. Michael is the next-of-kin. He makes these kinds of decisions. That is traditional, that is right, and that is also all you have to know.