Baldimo wrote:
Well I will say this, if my wife cheated on me there would be a divorce in the works.
As would be your right. but I cannot understand your wife's employer caring one way or the other.
Baldimo wrote: I can't help it that I took vows and will uphold them and expect the same of my wife.
As is also your perfect right.
Baldimo wrote:There is no excuse for stepping outside of marriage. If either one of us isn't getting out of the marriage what we thought it would hold then something needs to be said and then taken care of.
An admirable, idealistic thought, and I certainly hope it works out for you. But again, it is not going to affect my judgment to hire you, vote for you, or give you the contract to do the plumbing or electricity on my house.
Quote:Next to the oath I took to protect my country I hold the oath I took with my wife to be the most important one in my life. Marriage is sacred.
Again, all these thoughts I have nothing against. I am just not going to vote for you because of it. I will vote for you or against you on my estimation of your ability to move the country/state/city in the right direction.
Baldimo wrote:Just because we don't hold the same moral values on marriage doesn't mean you have to insult me with a cheap age comment. I've been married almost 10 years and I think I know what the real world is about. A difference of opinion is fine cheap shots are uncalled for.
It wan't an age argument at all. Manyof the people saying the same thing you are are in their 40's, 50's, or older. It is a ridiculous argument, and one that was raised by talk radio hosts in their never ending attempts to bring down Bill Clinton.
Before Clinton came to office, nobody talked about politicians' marriages. After Clinton came in, suddenly conservatives started trying to tell us that it wasn't the fact that he was putting people back to work, or cutting the deficit, or doing any of a number of other things-it's whether he is getting any on the side.
Heck, most of our Presidents were getting it on the side, but nobody made a big deal out of it. Clinton gets in-suddenly it becomes this big deal.
If examined, it is a ridiculous argument that flies in the face of history.