Never marry a REALLY hot women.

LOL.

EM ask woman to Be Here Now.

Woman leave.

EM ask woman to go another place.

Woman Be Here Now.

And Now, and Now, and....

Then again, I bet A LOT of those fancy pants intellectual philosophers of the past, if given the chance, would chuck all their nice philosophy and marry a hottie in a heartbeat.

Whether their hottie of preference would happen to be of the opposite sex or not is an altogether separate question.

I second that Extra medium. If they wouldn't I'd lose what little respect I have left for them.

Well, extra and borg, don't sell yourself short. You're
both very intelligent and witty. All you're lacking is
a wee bit more selfconfidence, so give yourself some
credit and get out there and exlore the female world.

EM:-

Maybe they would marry a "hottie" in a hearbeat.How long before she's not so hot.

You're a bit of a romantic I fear.

EM:-

Maybe they would marry a "hottie" in a hearbeat.How long before she's not so hot.

You're a bit of a romantic I fear.

spendius, you should give women more credit...

at the risk of sounding somewhat sentimental (which i can assure you, i m not!), i find women who have strong possitive personalities, and good outlooks, and sensitive manners, highly physically attractive.
i really do think that personality 'informs' appearance. Class, of the 'humanity' variety, shines through.

now for the politically 'incorrect' part; 'bimboness' is not beauty; it's all about the complete 'package', and the package is incomplete without the 'content'!
also most people who possess a definable outlook on life, and hence a good deal of self respect, take better care of themselves and exhude a possitive aura to go along with the 'content'.

[beauty is in the eye of the ..... strong, confident, aware woman]

[but then there's also "beauty is only skin deep, and that's good enough for me!"]

I just noticed that the title says "never marry a really hot women".

Can women be "a really hot"? Thought that was reserved for individuals. But maybe two or more women can compensate the lacks of eachother and together fill the discription "really hot".

Ops, I just read what I wrote, and man does it sound shallow.

'SOK, Boss, we have already discussed that in this thread, and it is such a hopeless train wreck by now, that a review of the discussion would not be at all out of order.

cyr:-

Well it would sound shallow seeing as it is shallow.

This whole thing is shallow so no need to worry.

Thank you!

Jiminy Christmas. As if we're actually going to have a deep conversation about marrying a hot women? Or even woman?

I took the whole thing as sort of tongue in cheek joke.

The hot woman is (IMHO), as has been noted: Great outlook, exudes passion for life and for you, lifts you up, looking in her eyes gets you high, she takes care of herself, lifelong learner, lifelong adventurer, you actually learn things (intellectual as well as carnal) from her, you 2 click mysteriously and you don't question it, she's original and unlike any other creature, and for some damn unknown reason she like you a lot.

Oh there's more & more & more , but thats a great start.

Physical looks to go with the above are nice icing on the cake. But not necessary at all. In fact, sometimes it can be a distraction from what is really going on between the 2 of you.

As for the bimbos, I guess they're great for a week or so when you are young. But its so shallow and such a roller coaster, I'm not sure its even worth it in the end.

So it seems we're redefining "Hotness." Therefore, are we now saying don't marry this hot woman who has a great personality, is positive toward life, has the content, blah blah blah? I mean, we're saying she's the hot one now, and thats whats attractive.

The bimbo isn't hot, we're saying. So when we say don't marry the hot woman, are we now saying go ahead and marry the bimbo? Cause after all the content/non-bimbo one we're saying is the hot one not to marry?

The ironies just keep doubling back on their selves.

Again, its impossible to have a truly deep conversation about this.

Best answer is probably to just go out and live in a cave and focus on your breathing for 50 years or so, and don't get married at all.

Unless someone like Calamity or BabblingBrook or the rest of the fine ladies here comes along... :wink:

Depends how you are defining "hot." I've met women who keep this hotness well past 60...their personality and passion for life just keeps evolving and getting better & better...

Okay! Fine! Will do! Starts tonight! "Hey baby, whats up? You Hot! My imaginary friends on the computer said don't marry you, but, like, can I spend some qualitee time wid you? Well you know, I'd really like to explore the Female World with you, can you be my guide?!? "

But if we get all caught up in that, you won't see us post on here much, you know that right? :wink:

LOL. That will be so funny. Codeborg & me writing notes to each other.
Title of our Discourse:
Codeborg & EM's Exploration of the Female World.

Does that sound like a good movie to you? A comedy? I'd like to think it would be at least R-rated though?

A romantic comedy? A tear jerker? A comedy of errors. A sad tale of toil & rejection. A Fantasy! A spiritual tale of love and redemption.

A horror flick? :wink:

Control yourself boyo!

They are having you on.


It would be a sad tale of boyish innocence transformed into a DIY skinto in two shakes of a lamb's tail.

The first thing to understand about women is that you don't understand them.And to them you are an open book in large print and simple sentences.You are a wallet that is prised open by your own chisel.

The operative word is "marry" i.e.sign here.

C.J.says go out there and explore the female world.The ice-cream salesman says "stop me and buy one".

You are right about one thing EM.It is a knot of irony.Women want a man they can control and they despise men who are easily controlled.Well-I'm exaggerating.They don't know what they want actually.They have contradictory impulses depending which article they read last.

It's daft really.You could try the $50,000 wedding trick.That works quite well as long as you scarper before the cheque gets to the bank.

But I shouldn't be so dispiriting seeing as how it is all so,so romantic.I get earache in the pub though about the wet ashes phase.It does wonders for the facial muscles.

extra, I would sacrifice seeing you writing here at a2k for
your utter happiness in the dating world. Who said anything
about marriage? Just have fun!

(and tell us later )

spendius, I somehow get the notion that you've been burnt
badly by women.

I rather get the notion he has been roasted on a spit, dunked in the brine and left out in the snow! Wow Spendius, you do show contempt for the 'little darlings'

Does Lola know you feel like this?

I have the little devious vixens sussed right out.That's all.They don't pull any wool over my eyes.They would be boring if they did.And boring is the pits.I treat them as equals.I don't patronise them with any flatteries.

And if that lot back there was the same as being roasted on a spit I can understand why there are so many martyrs.

C.J.Put your other avvie back.Please.It was lovely.
I will never be besotted with this one and if I'm not besotted I won't be able to stop myself ignoring you.I don't even mind if the beautiful one was false.Image is important.

Mathos:-

Don't worry your little conker about Lola.

Lola can take care of herself without any help from you.She likes me.She enjoys being treated as an equal as I do.We are cyber mates and right from the moment we met.

Across a crowded room.

Like two kids rooting around in the woods before all that carnal knowledge bullshit comes in.