Never marry a REALLY hot women.

Women are never "really hot women" until they have experienced married life {or similar} for some years. They may as younger girls be alluring, tempting, fascinating and appealing. A 'hot randy woman' is normally past those episodes and is special. Cleopatra and Helen ring a bell as good examples. The younger members of the female clan 18 upwards may be exquisite in their appearance but the particular sphere of a 'really hot woman' extends far deeper than the bimbo's will ever portray.

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I am so glad we cannot agree on what is a "hot" woman. Smile

blueveinedthrobber wrote:

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We've been married almost 18 years. I am completely struck by every aspect of my wife.
You should be so lucky, and I hope you are or someday may be.

Thank you. I hope to be someday.

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Cyracuz wrote:

I am so glad we cannot agree on what is a "hot" woman.

blueveinedthrobber wrote:

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We've been married almost 18 years. I am completely struck by every aspect of my wife.
You should be so lucky, and I hope you are or someday may be.

Thank you. I hope to be someday.

Cyracuz, 'Old Friend' I cannot wait to hear your description, it will be of great interest to me.

You hope to be married for 18 years I note with concern. Why?

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Can't the notion of ugliness begats inner beauty be disproved by all of the ugly women I know that also do not have a winning personality? If ugliness in your developing years forces one to develop a good personality, why don't I feel *wonderful* going into Wal-Mart? or the DMV? Imagine all the wonderful attitudes I will run across!

I'm not denying that the development of physical appearance plays a role in personality development, but it is not a big enough factor to significantly affect one's personality. Is it so difficult to spot bad personality that one has to guestimate the past physical attractiveness of a person? Can't you just ask them for some help with something and judge from their reaction?

Maybe hot chicks don't give me the time of day because they just developed that way. That would be nice. Then I wouldn't feel like there was something wrong with me. Maybe pretty girls don't turn on the charm when I'm around because they instinctively sense my lack of cash. Doh.

You may be saying, "But Pinche, ugly girls always give me the time of day and hot chicks don't." That's because you are inbetween "hot" and "average" and every person wants to "date up". Further proof of this is explained in the ladder theory of adult male/female interaction.
http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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No Mathos, I hope to be as lucky as blueveinedthrobber, and find someone that can keep my heart beating faster everytime I see her, even after eighteen years.

My description of a "hot" woman? A woman that's been lying on the beach all day? Smile

But seriously, female musicians turn me on. Maybe it is because I myself am a musician. Looks play some part in it, but not a decicive one. If she has a stormy and poetical soul and a keen and ruthless intelligence I am likely to fall flat on my face...

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Cyracuz wrote:

No Mathos, I hope to be as lucky as blueveinedthrobber, and find someone that can keep my heart beating faster everytime I see her, even after eighteen years.

My description of a "hot" woman? A woman that's been lying on the beach all day?

But seriously, female musicians turn me on. Maybe it is because I myself am a musician. Looks play some part in it, but not a decicive one. If she has a stormy and poetical soul and a keen and ruthless intelligence I am likely to fall flat on my face...

I understand your sentiments towards Bvt., A rare steak is wonderful but 18 x 365. Wow ! It is bound to become tedious?

The lobster joke, I like it !

Right, I actually did some semi pro vocals many moons hence. Had the ignominy of appearing on the same bill as Tom Jones, and 'up north' with Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Titch. Not name dropping, you just got me carried away when you came in with the musicians bit. Musicians are quite abreed 'apart' I have had a few scores written in the 'long ago' by some really weird but totally wonderful characters.
Don't know if you ever came across Russ Abbot, when he was with the 'Black Abbots' he turned up at a couple of my gigs and just started being totally stupid, place was in uproar. You know that feeling when you think, 'He'll make it'

Anyhow, The female musician turn on interests me greatly.
Name them!

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blueveinedthrobber wrote:

We've been married almost 18 years. I am completely struck by every aspect of my wife.
You should be so lucky, and I hope you are or someday may be.

Did you just wish that Cyracuz get's lucky with your wife someday?

What kind of board is THIS!?! Wink

TTF

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Joni Mitchell is a serious turn on. These modern singers/lapdancers do not interest me greatly. There is more sensuality in the eyes of Joni Michell alone than there is in the entire porn-pop industry. I'm not saying that Britney Spears' Toxic is not a good song, but for a turn on it doesn't do much, nor does any of the other videos she made. Joni singing about a big yellow taxi cab however...

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I think this is within my thesis Cyracuz.

Joni is not emperically as attractive as say a Brittany Spears. But there is nothing in Brittany's eyes (or head) to be attracted to.

Britanny has been worshipped since she was 7 and a part of the micky mouse club - thus - she has not needed to create a personality.

Joni - again emperically speaking - is not as attractive and has other features cultivated that make her sexy.

TF

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Joni is great. I find a lot of woman turning me on in Cindy Lauper.
I admired and liked Madonna too. Seems to have gone a little weird though the last few years.

A 'hot woman' though, and Joni is a good example, is capable of carrying those 'special effects' for a lifetime. Totally opposite to 'the bimbo's 'who have a short life span, and don't they look a dogs bollock when they can't keep it anymore!

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Mathos wrote:

Women are never "really hot women" until they have experienced married life {or similar} for some years.

Yeah, then they're finished!

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CalamityJane wrote:

Mathos wrote:
Women are never "really hot women" until they have experienced married life {or similar} for some years.

Yeah, then they're finished!

Wouldn't that be "well done" from all the heat?

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parados wrote:

CalamityJane wrote:
Mathos wrote:
Women are never "really hot women" until they have experienced married life {or similar} for some years.

Yeah, then they're finished!

Wouldn't that be "well done" from all the heat?

burnt. toasted.

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First of all, marry someone you love, someone you want to live with. Then, if you are concerned with looks, and I think you should be physically attracted to your wife, choose a woman whose "look" you like, not one who is necessarily considered good looking by people in general. I find that a woman's "look" includes what others might consider her faults. Some "faults" are attractive to me but not to others. It's so personal and subjective. I rarely find women attractive in beauty pageants--except for their figures, of course. But, then, they are all equally attractive in that regard, a dime a dozen you might say.

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That's true JL - I live in southern California and out of all
those extremely attractive blondes with surgically enhanced figures, you can't tell them apart.

Doesn't almost everyone marry for love? It's the staying
in love part, that's most difficult.

parados, your avatar is too cute. With "finished" I meant
something else...burnt comes close. Wink

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Looks fade all too quickly.

Sometimes I feel like the temporal nature of physical looks is almost another sort of spiritual test for us.

Are you going to get suckered in to pure mindless physical beauty, watch it fade quickly, realize your love was simply shallow physical attraction, and pay that price? Well I guess one way or another eventually (hopefully) people learn.

IMHO: Find the woman (or man) who has a deep passion for something (almost anything) in life, and somehow if you are lucky enough they have that passion for you also, and then you really have something special.

All of us can find someone out there who makes life seem different when they are around. Its electric. Its immortal. It lifts you up. Its like magic. And it rarely has to do with being hot or physically looking great. After a certain modicum of average "looks" is met, looks are no longer the most important factor.

Give me the "turned on by life" plain jane over the "gorgeous" bored, spoiled, & jaded person any day. In fact, I find often if she is too physically beautiful, it can be a negative. As some have posted, too much beauty almost becomes a handicap, because that person often has coasted too much, is used to be spoiled, and often their personality can suffer from that. Not always though! Take me for example! Twisted Evil

Their attitude and energy and intensity and originality and individuality and they way they sensously soulfully approach life is whats hot. Even in the bedroom! Somehow they tap into this intense energy that makes them special. The animal & being that they are, in all its glory. And the interesting thing is, that energy is available to most people if they truly want it. You can't buy it and put it in you like plastic, but if you truly work on yourself, you can attain it free. But its not for sale anywhere! That is a hot girl or guy! Something beautiful about that. Embarrassed

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Fortunately, however, my Sweetiepie and i are both red hot numbers, who leaves broken hearts in the hundreds as we pass . . .

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Setanta wrote:

Fortunately, however, my Sweetiepie and i are both red hot numbers, who leaves broken hearts in the hundreds as we pass . . .

See this is what I'm talking about. You are just so utterly gorgeous, your personality may have suffered... :wink:

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CalamityJane wrote:

That's true JL - I live in southern California and out of all
those extremely attractive blondes with surgically enhanced figures, you can't tell them apart.

Doesn't almost everyone marry for love? It's the staying
in love part, that's most difficult.

parados, your avatar is too cute. With "finished" I meant
something else...burnt comes close.

CJ,

I see you made a trip to Glamour Shots to get your new avatar done. Laughing

I love it.

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extra medium wrote:

See this is what I'm talking about. You are just so utterly gorgeous, your personality may have suffered... :wink:

Moi ? ! ? ! ? . . . why, butter wouldn't melt . . .

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