Never marry a REALLY hot women.

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Okay I have had this theory for a while - and I think it works for both genders - tell me if I am just on crack.

Really hot women that were cute when kids, pretty when adolescents, and hot when adults - never, in our society, had to develop a personality. It is proven that prettier defendant get less time when on trial, get more promotions, and are treated nicer in situations - I think this carries over to all facets of life - as sad as that is.

When I say personality I mean, sense of humor, friendliness, ability to work for what she wants and so on.

I have seen so many of these people not even be able to cope when they get to college and there are MANY of the calibre people around them and they are not the center of attention. I have seen these types of people drop out, get married to a hot guy (who also has no personality) and be miserable.

Here is my thesis. Marry a woman who used to be fat, or blossomed late - and NOW is hot. In this case (speaking as a male - and I am sure I will be hammered for this) you get the best of both worlds. Good looking and great personality.

Okay - let me have it and know that this is just a light hearted pseudo theory of mine.

TTF

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If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her, then she starts
Doin' the things that will break his heart

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
You'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks your meals on time
An she'll always give you peace of mind

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly and her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you

If You Want to Be Happy -- Jimmy Soul

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Re: Never marry REALLY hot women.

thethinkfactory wrote:

Okay I have had this theory for a while - and I think it works for both genders - tell me if I am just on crack.

Really hot women that were cute when kids, pretty when adolescents, and hot when adults - never, in our society, had to develop a personality. It is proven that prettier defendant get less time when on trial, get more promotions, and are treated nicer in situations - I think this carries over to all facets of life - as sad as that is.

When I say personality I mean, sense of humor, friendliness, ability to work for what she wants and so on.

I have seen so many of these people not even be able to cope when they get to college and there are MANY of the calibre people around them and they are not the center of attention. I have seen these types of people drop out, get married to a hot guy (who also has no personality) and be miserable.

Here is my thesis. Marry a woman who used to be fat, or blossomed late - and NOW is hot. In this case (speaking as a male - and I am sure I will be hammered for this) you get the best of both worlds. Good looking and great personality.

Okay - let me have it and know that this is just a light hearted pseudo theory of mine.

TTF

Your theory really has little to do with looks. It has to do with how kids are raised. A child that never has to work for anything doesn't know how to cope when no longer the center of attention. I heard a piece on this on NPR a month or so ago. The beautiful parents with only one child will spend all there effort making their child beautiful to the world so it is what you see. Take away all the accoutrements and they are really no more physically beautiful than 100 other kids. Paris Hilton is the perfect example. Amazing what a billion $$ can do for someone that without it would be considered butt ugly.

That all being said.. GET OFF THE CRACK!!!!! Twisted Evil

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Thanks, Setanta, you beat me to posting that song.

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Well, I wouldn't give such across the board statements,
as I know women who have great personality, are caring
and charming despite being attractive, and successful in their lives.
I also know women who are bitter and consider
themselves disadvantaged due to their looks and capabilities
thereof. Their ability to develop a winning personality is handicapped by their own perception of feeling unattractive.
They base their misfortune in life solely on the absence of looks.

The key - as always - is to feel comfortable with yourself,
no matter how you look. If you're loved and accepted in
your circle, nothing else matters. Wink

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Guidance departments at the Service Academies work harder than the counselors at State Schools or the Ivy League.

Not only has nearly every member of the entry class been a large frog in a small pond, s/he's been a competitive frog.

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jespah wrote:

Thanks, Setanta, you beat me to posting that song.

It's one of those things which just leaps into your mind, ain't it, Jespah?

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By a modest margin, I'm going to agree with CalamityJane. Modest, meaning there are some fabulous exceptions out there.

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A winning and ready smile does alot to help those who bare their teeth.

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I agree, though there are a few expections (of course). It does seem this way, especially for women. *shrug*

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Consider the grief attached to a post-grad BMOC who was spoiled by an adoring mama.

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CalamityJane wrote:

Well, I wouldn't give such across the board statements,
as I know women who have great personality, are caring
and charming despite being attractive, and successful in their lives.
I also know women who are bitter and consider
themselves disadvantaged due to their looks and capabilities
thereof. Their ability to develop a winning personality is handicapped by their own perception of feeling unattractive.
They base their misfortune in life solely on the absence of looks.

The key - as always - is to feel comfortable with yourself,
no matter how you look. If you're loved and accepted in
your circle, nothing else matters.

I agree Jane that theat was a HUGE brush and there are exceptions.

Perhaps you are the exception to the rule. Wink

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noddy 24 is that the fool as your avatar?

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thethinkfactory wrote:

Perhaps you are the exception to the rule.

TF

Nah, I'm nasty as hell Laughing

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CalamityJane wrote:

thethinkfactory wrote:
Perhaps you are the exception to the rule.

TF

Nah, I'm nasty as hell

ooo, Calamity, you are sounding better all the time!!! Embarrassed

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TTF, your thoughts are not way off. It's painfully logical actually. A person of lesser phyical attraction will have to be more interesting in order to keep somone's attention on them. A beautiful person does not need to answer cleverly or have interesting stories to get attention, so they develop less skills in these areas. Just like you said, though this is fairly black and white. A norwegian multi millionaire, she got rich on her own efforts and skills (not physical), is also one of the hottest babes in our small country.

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You guys are full of ****, no offense.

squinney is a hottie. She also has a kind heart, a quick wit,an inquiring mind and a sacrificng spirit.

psst...great lay too.

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Quote:

psst...great lay too.

Hehehe... you just couldn't help yourself, could you? Had to include that part. No offense, but you sound cuntstruck. Smile

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We've been married almost 18 years. I am completely struck by every aspect of my wife.
You should be so lucky, and I hope you are or someday may be.

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A.K.--

Yes, alpha and omega; the seeking and the discovery; the present and all time.

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Never marry a REALLY hot women.

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