@farmerman,
Did she get injured or put to any tiresome experiences?
Nobody is seeking to doubt your life choices fm. The objection is to parading them as if they are superior to the life choices of others when they are obviously not.
It makes nonsense of evolutionary principles to over-ride sensual inputs. No animal does it unless trained to do. There's not a racehorse that wouldn't start coasting or even pull up in the last two furlongs if no applications of the whip were allowed.
And you are disqualified from appealing to social evolution because you have already dismissed that in regard to religion. Or those aspects of religion that you once found inconvenient and which you have now internalised as principles through habit.
There is a cash stream for those happy with their lot but it so easily catered for that it is necessary to keep employment rates high that we are rendered unhappy.
And you have to allow that many people do doubt their life choices. The psychiatrists don't cause that. Are you suggesting that psychiatry is a job creation scheme?