@Glennn,
Quote:You are confusing jealousy with concern. Jealousy is the result of the belief that you possess another. Concern is the result of fearing for another's safety. You can always tell the difference between jealousy and concern.
There is a fine distinction between simple concern and jealous concern.
I may see a random girl hanging out with a dirtbag and feel genuine concern, but I'm not going to stick my nose in it when it isn't my place.
But if that girl is my daughter, I feel jealously concerned and I'm gonna say something. There is something different about it and it isn't insecurity.
As far as that never-ending torture crap, it's just that - total crap.
A person might feel even worse than tortured when they realize the wrong choices they made but beyond that realization, the only never-ending consequence of those mistakes is the second eternal death. The metaphors of 'eternal flames' etc. just reflects the finality of that destruction.