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Is my boyfriend not being very strong and not being a good wrestler mean he's bad in bed?

 
 
Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 10:25 am
Okay, my new boyfriend and I have had sex on two different occasions now. I dominated both even though he seemed to be trying. I was wondering if I let him do the dominating of he would get the job done (I know., I should just try it. But I'm an inquiring mind) or maybe not, since he isn't that strong and isn't good at wrestling. I've read where a guy being stronger and good at wrestling means he's better at sex, but I don't see the correlation. However, maybe this explains why I have dominated him during sex. I sensed he was a little frustrated the second time when we were having sex, because I wouldn't let him have control.
Thoughts?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 10:55 am
@becca8052,
Wrestling ability doesn't mean squat when it comes to sex.
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eurocelticyankee
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:35 am
@becca8052,
Are you a lady wrestler?.

When you say you dominate him does that mean you're beating him up.

neptuneblue
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:40 am
@becca8052,
Asked & answered: https://able2know.org/topic/484005-1#post-6740073

Having said that, why are you with with someone you obviously disrespect?
becca8052
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:42 am
@eurocelticyankee,
lol. No, I'm not a lady wrestler or wrestle him. I am on top more. When he tries to be in top I make him work for it but he struggles to roll me on my back to be in top, though he tries.
becca8052
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:43 am
@neptuneblue,
I don't disrespect him. What a ridiculous assumption.
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eurocelticyankee
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:51 am
@becca8052,
Yep, that's wrestling alright.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 11:59 am
@becca8052,
becca8052 wrote:
I sensed he was a little frustrated the second time when we were having sex, because I wouldn't let him have control.
Thoughts?


my thought is that you really need to talk to your boyfriend about this

you also need to talk to someone about some of the odd ideas you seem to have about what correlates with good sex
becca8052
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 01:06 pm
@ehBeth,
Talk to him about his lack of strength and performance during sex?
Thanks.
chai2
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 02:10 pm
@becca8052,
becca8052 wrote:

Talk to him about his lack of strength and performance during sex?
Thanks.


Not during sex Gorgeous Lady of Wrestling, before or after.

In any event why are you making him work or struggle during sex?

Do you have some kind of rape fantasy? Serious question.

There’s nothing wrong with that if both of you like that idea, but you’re going to need to work out the logistics is that’s the case.

If it’s some like that maybe you could let him bind your hands or something so so you don have as much of an advantage.

If you’re shocked I’m saying this remember who is the one coming on here and telling complete stranger about one of the most personal parts of your life.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 02:45 pm
@becca8052,
becca8052 wrote:

Talk to him about his lack of strength and performance during sex?
Thanks.


no

__

actually yes - it might help him understand how whack you are about this
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 03:52 pm
I overheard a lady in the women’s bathroom talking about her ex, “He was a lazy fu$k...”

Since I knew him, I also knew that was not the only reason for the divirce, but since he smoked a lot of pot and had a lazy temperament, the description was believe able.

I think you should break up with this guy. This issue apparently bothers you and it’s not going to get resolved.

Unless you are very overweight, find another guy you think can dominate in bed.
Olivier5
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 01:31 am
@PUNKEY,
Quote:
Unless you are very overweight, find another guy you think can dominate in bed.

That must be the strangest advice ever given on a dating thread...

Becca enjoys the fact she can dominate her BF. It's not a problem for her. She just wonders whether it's a problem for him.
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laughoutlood
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 04:24 am
@becca8052,
A little cross disciplinary training attached to the snatch, clean and jerk, and squat should sort him out.

For motivation try exercising his chords during the workout, in the interim.

Hold On I'm Coming

Won’t you ever learn tricks
Satisfy your dominatrix
When the night comes and you go down
On a river of trouble and about to drown

Just hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'

I'm on my way, you muvva
If you get cold, yeah, I will be your cover
You'd better worry, 'cause I'm here
Yo need to suffer, baby, cause I'm near

Just hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'

Nooky here
Reach out to me
My satisfaction, yeah
Nooky here, boy, that’s all you got to do
Squeal my name, yeah, for quick reaction
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

You won't always be glad
Mean old me makes the times so bad
When the dawn comes and you are up
To your neck in trouble I'll get out the whup

Just hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'
Hold on, I'm comin'

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eurocelticyankee
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 04:49 am
@becca8052,
My dear Becca, did you not know that nothing out of the ordinary is allowed on this site.

Missionary position only and don't forget no enjoyment allowed.


Very Happy
Olivier5
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 08:03 am
@eurocelticyankee,
Quote:
no enjoyment allowed.

God forbid!
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becca8052
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 08:42 am
@ehBeth,
wack?? 😆
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becca8052
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 08:45 am
@PUNKEY,
He's relatively healthy,,doesn't smoke or drink a while lot, exercises,,etc He's not skinny or,overweight. I'm 125ish lbs and he's close to 160lbs, but not all lean muscle mass. I did some gymnastics when I was a kid and cheerleading. He's a runner
engineer
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 09:41 am
@becca8052,
You need to let him know you prefer it a little rough. He's probably not going to wrestle you unless you let him know that you're into that.
chai2
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 10:36 am
@engineer,
No no engineer, you don't get it.

She wants to know if he's bad in bed.
 

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