Boy, you really know how to start with and then keep the judgements and insults coming. Don't get upset now that some are coming back to you.
Have you read what I wrote? Here is just a sample:
“Yes, she has always had a lower sex drive and that in itself is not a problem. Everyone has different levels of drive. The issue here is a match or lack of, and given it is the latter, how do we reconcile?”
“I do have the gist of what you are saying, work with her and try to dial my drive back a bit. Good advice and I thank you for that.”
“We love each other and fit in so many other ways. I do not see this breaking up the marriage. Also this is not the most important issue to her or I.”
Most would agree with me, this is not someone blaming their wife.
Concerning therapy, I wrote this:
“I'm open to seeing a professional, but that is not my first choice. Like everyone else, I googled the subject, we read a couple of articles together and I saw this board, so I'm trying it. I doubt any of your have Ph. D's in marriage counseling, but most have had some insightful observations that have helped.”
Beth, I’ve been in group therapy (twice) and if this was a group therapy session you would have been kicked out for two reasons; First, for your right off the bate negative judgements with me and then with Max. Second, for using four letter words and directing them toward me.
You've seem to have issues to work out (baggage you are bringing and dumping on this conversation), and I wish you well in working them out elsewhere.
Now get all the negatives out you must about me or say what every you have to say to prove you are right and I'm wrong. That is OK. Then we can move back to the topic.