No, average is okey. I wouldn’t date someone That’s below average. Since i put an effort into going to the gym i think its only normal i look for a girl thats also average weight. I get this privilege by going out of my way to train, but guess wat, its not a privilege and people who dont train can also make this choice.
At the looks department its a lil different ofc cause u dont choose how you look, For me appearance is just a number/100 i add to other factors like personality, living distance, intelligence etc, : looks 67+pers 80+d 100+ i 80 (this would be someone who looks good is fun and smart and lives close, ofc im not thinking about numbers every time i see girls (except if im scoring someones looks).
Also rating potential partners is not a sin, u should try. If the total number is about the same they equally right for u, ur never gonna get max. But if the number is more than 40 appart, one might be more suitable for u than the other. In finding a gf u gotta look at all numbers, but someone u never met or see from a distance u can only judge by looks and there’s nothing wrong with that in the sleightest. Its what looks are for. Its nature.
Looks are pure genes, dont be bullshiting, looks are genes and hygiene. U want ur children to get the best looks genes, looks are proven to affect status and succes. Im not saying u cant get succesful if u below average, im just saying that with the same qualities other that looks, an employer is probably gonna chose the best looking candidate. Even if u dont want that, its how it is and the “it aint fair 😭😭” argument is worthless, life aint fair and u gotta make the best of it.
Im pretty confident and usually girls say im between 7 and 8, now i dont say thats true and i could be wrong, but i don’t really care. I just go up to a gal and if she likes me she will go forth with the convo, otherwise i move on like a grownup,i dont do sour love grapes. I think if i can judge (partially) based on looks, its only fair i dont get mad if someone else does the same thing.
I would really like to know, sadly there’s no way to be sure unless u ask all the people that have seen me. If u find a simpler way hit me up 👌🏻. I try to be the best i can every day, i go to the gym for a good body, use creams and soap for acne etc, try to be honest and engaging. If i pay attention to all these factors i believe i have the right to choose for a girl that does the same.