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Should I tell him I like him?

 
 
Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2018 05:30 am
About ~4 months ago I met this guy and we clicked well. Ever since we've been talking on daily basis. The times he isn't / wasn't able to contact me, he told me why or what he had been up to. (He really doesn't have to do that.) He gives a lot of fast replies and keeps the conversation going. He can very sarcastic and doesn't talk about feelings at all.

Last month he asked me out and we went out last weekend. (It was my first date and I'm not used to liking someone). He had to travel pretty far and it was fun in my opinion. By the end he hugged me and told me: 'see you next time'.
We still talk, although I'm very confused. Generally I thought he likes me, but his sarcastic comments sometimes take me off guard:
- When I told him I didn't know what to do he said: "Or we can just stop talking"
- When I went out: "Now you can get some guys"
- Sometimes when I confront him with things he says: "Oh but I don't really have a problem talking to you"
- When I said he was a nice guy, he replied with: "aha" and then later said he didn't know kind of answer I expected.
- ...

How should I approach this? Because I'm really confused
 
jespah
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2018 06:23 am
@cocoaniable,
Ask him out for a second date! It can be the movies or a soda or a coffee. It doesn't need to be anything big, expensive, or elaborate. Keep in mind, the person who does the inviting should be paying, but you don't have to provide the transportation if you can't (I don't know if you've got access to a car).

And have fun. Don't talk about feelings at this stage. Seriously, don't! You may have friends who are gushing with this, that, or the other thing. Don't be that person. Keep it cool and just have fun to start. And, BTW, it doesn't need to be exclusive in the beginning.

For so many people these days, dating = a confession of feelings. It doesn't and it shouldn't. Big drippy, weepy confessions at the very start are for bad rom-coms. They're not really for real life.

Let everything evolve naturally, and that means slowly. Give it a few months before talking feelings. Right now, just have fun.
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Romeron
 
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Reply Thu 30 Aug, 2018 08:29 am
@cocoaniable,
What a word 'cocoaniable'.
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CosCom Love
 
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Reply Mon 17 Sep, 2018 05:16 pm
@cocoaniable,
Ask him if he is a virgin boy. That will keep him thinking
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Txin
 
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Reply Tue 18 Sep, 2018 09:40 am
@cocoaniable,
我觉得应该说出来,爱要大声说出来
It is the view of chinese
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