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Fri 23 Feb, 2018 05:17 pm
I have an issue with my love life at the moment. Im in a serious relationship. We moved from NJ to TN with some friends from that area. My main concern is there is one friend of hers that she knows I can't stand her being friends with. I try to get passed it but she is a very secretive and private person that doesn't like leaving a trail. I don't like looking into her stuff but I found out she was texting this guy...alot. He doesn't seem to be going off course with what he talks to her about and sounds like he is just a friend. But the things she says to him make my blood boil. I'm currently typing this and my hands are shaking. I waited for an opportunity to strike and she was away from her phoneand tablet. Unbeknownst to her I know her tablet password and she has an old flip phone. I've been checking in every once in a while and noticed how much attention this guy is getting. I go to work at 6am and she sets alarms for around 10am(she recently lost her job) she texts this guy every morning. She says things like " Morning Bae" or " Morning Babe<3"... tell me that somehow that is normal and not her cheating... She used to work with the guy before we left. What the he'll do I do?
If she is a woman, she is your fiancée. If you are a man, you are her fiancé. But not for much longer, I'm betting. You moved from New Jersey to Tennessee? Are you serious? Whose idea was that? You don't trust her, and she shouldn't trust you, snoop that you are. Keeps some cash aside for the move back to civilisation.
@centrox,
I guess that was insightful but I'm not sure how anything is going to pan out. It's fine to call me a snoop but I didn't mention that she's been trying to snoop in me via mutual friends. Point is she's doing all of this and I don't know how to approach any of it.
@TheNiteOwlGuy,
Why stay?
Seriously. Nobody is trusting.
Haul ass back to the Garden State and be glad it's done.
@TheNiteOwlGuy,
TheNiteOwlGuy wrote: What the he'll do I do?
move out and get yourself back to NJ as soon as you can
or stay in TN but away from her and those so-called mutual friends you moved with
start fresh
@TheNiteOwlGuy,
TheNiteOwlGuy wrote:Im in a serious relationship.
seriously bad
you're snooping on each other
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get away from each other
spend some time growing up
start dating other people (outside of your old circle for sure) in about six months
You do not trust her. You've proved that by all the snooping you have done. Without trust, the relationship is dead. It is that simple.
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