@Eva,
You're doing the right thing. We just lost a nephew last week to a freak accident on my brother's family rafting on the Truckee River. Jon was full of life, and at the peak of his career as an attorney and judge in the small north-eastern town in California.
I'm celebrating my 77th birthday tomorrow, and all my siblings said they're coming.
We need to keep in touch with our family members, because we never know what our future holds. Saying we'll do it "tomorrow" never comes.
My siblings and I have made it a regular event some years ago to meet every several months to share a meal and conversations. We're at that age when attending funerals for family members and friends will become the norm.