Chrissee wrote: OCCOM BILL, in all due respect, your post(s) show an incredible lack of understanding and knowledge of human sexuality, there are an AWFUL LOT of men and women who are bi-sexual. And to widely varying degreees. Despite the denials, the exceptional cases are the complete homo-sexual and complete hetereo-sexual. Most people have some tendenecy to at least experiment or at least fantasize about experimenting with the same sex. (See Kinsey's scale)
I don't claim to be an expert, Chrissee. I don't know where you got the idea that I don't know there are lots of Gay and Bi people out there either. I do know that the majority of women I've discussed it with have had homosexual thoughts... and I tend to doubt the denial of some who said they didn't. Dudes I know don't discuss this stuff much and I'd be less likely to accept denial from a dude as gospel myself, and can honestly say I have no idea what percentage might be how gay. Since it is a closet condition for so many, how could I?
Chrissee wrote: So the people you say make a "choice" are bi-sexual. To me, it is hard to understand how anyone could be 100% gay or 100% straight. BTW at one time, thanks to the guilt and reperession thrust upon me by the catholic church, I was in denial about my sexuality so I know where a lot of ou are coming from, the mere fact that we can't find a single person who opposes gay marriage to admit to the very normal, natural inclination of having a fleeting gay inclination speaks volumes.
That's as dizzy and preconceived as it was last time you said it. The response is still entirely too limited for you to draw any meaningful conclusion whatsoever. While I believe
you can't imagine how anyone could be 100% gay or 100% straight;
I can't imagine how anyone, male or female, could look at a guys hairy a$$ and become aroused. Really, I can't. Homosexual women make sense to me, because woman are soft, caring and beautiful. Homosexual men don't make sense to me, because, they aren't. Now I've thought about this at some length and determined that this seeming hypocrisy isn't because I'm a chauvinist or a bigot or because I'm selfish... it's simply because I'm straight. Now that may not make any sense to you; but that's not because you've drunk from the fountain of knowledgeÂ… I assure you. Frankly, you seem to be more closed minded on this subject than most of the people who've responded. Even with my limited knowledge of gays I can comfortably tell you that you don't speak for all homosexuals... and they don't all agree with your theories.
Chrissee wrote:One day, people will look at us and laugh about how we were so hung up on worrying about who mated whom and what people did in the privacy of their bedromm and even labeling people at all. Humans cannot be labeled sexually, each individual is unique as to his or her sexual desires, inclinations and practices.
That day is today for lots of us. I promise you I couldn't give a rat's a$$ what goes on in the bedroom between consenting adults... but, gay or straight... I don't want to hear about it.
Chrissee wrote:So that is what we need to do, stop labeling people straight, gay, bi, whatever, just accept that everyone is an individual and respect that.
This I think is silly. People need to get over the labels. It's getting so if I point to my friend and say he's the big black dude over there, some people think I've said something wrong. Same thing if I'm meeting a friend at a club and wish to be informed of his arrival, and say he's the biggest Asian you've ever seen... Or if I say get that little gay dude over there a drink (yes, you can tell from here with him)....
Some people get so bent out of shape trying not to label people they forget that our differences are part of our identity.
