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Should I contact her

 
 
Dpuaoi
 
Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 02:55 pm
I recently found texts on my boyfriend’s phone that imply a romantic
relationship was forming. When I confronted he insist he had no
desire to be with this person. She was not his type and overweight. He
did it to get free massages(she was a massage student)

Bottom line, I screen shot some of the text and have her number.
I so want to text her a few of the pictures and ask her whats
Going on. He doesn’t want that. What should I do?
 
centrox
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 03:00 pm
If he can pretend to be interested in a girl to get "free massages", what, I wonder, is he getting for free from YOU? And saying about you?

Dpuaoi
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 03:08 pm
@centrox,
Should I ask her?
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 03:11 pm
@Dpuaoi,
Dpuaoi wrote:

I so want to text her a few of the pictures and ask her whats
Going on.


why would you involve someone else in your relationship?

deal with your boyfriend. he is the one you think you are in a relationship with.

contacting the woman will do nothing other than annoy both of them. there's no upside for you unless you want them both to dislike you.

it may help them form a bond they didn't have before
Dpuaoi
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 03:23 pm
@ehBeth,
Because I know she knows about me. And, when I try to push him to confront
Her to stop all contact he refuses. So why not contact her? Maybe I’ll find the
Truth and dump him.
centrox
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 03:25 pm
@Dpuaoi,
Dpuaoi wrote:
Maybe I’ll find the Truth and dump him.

Just dump him. You don't trust him.

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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 04:19 pm
@Dpuaoi,
Dpuaoi wrote:
So why not contact her?


because she is not part of your relationship.

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Do everyone a favour and move on. He'll be much better off without you.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 28 Oct, 2017 04:21 pm
Your BF is a cheat and a liar.

Why do you want him? He disrespects you and tells you he will not stop his cheating.

Wise up. See what's going on. HE is the problem, not her.
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