Forgivness in Infidelty

Absolutely. That would be one of the terms of the "forgiveness."

Its clear that they both had something going on so why can't he respect her enough to take away the reminder?

I'm sorry your husband is being a jerk about this.

Are the lady and her husband prepared to lose the business by way of a lawsuit?

forgiveness means that the lady is fine with both of them. that means she has no reason to request the employee be let go.

in any case, the person who should be let go is the husband - out of the marriage. he is the one who owed fidelity to his wife - the employee did not have that relationship with the lady.

why can't he respect her enough to leave the marriage before having a relationship with another?

I am assuming you are either the wife or the employee. If not, my answer is that this is none of your concern so why run around asking strangers this question?

If you are the employee, then shame on you for sending inappropriate photos and videos to a married man. Is it out of place for the wife to want you fired? Not in my book. And depending on the state or country you are in, you may have no recourse if you are fired.

If you are the wife, well, actually I think that is the least likely here. But, you have forgiven both of them and as long as they stop and you believe he has otherwise been faithful, then let it go.

you have to learn to deal with your discomfort (i'm assuming that you are the wife). Firing the employee doesn't make your husband more faithful, it makes you blind to reality. The reality is that the incident happened. That reality will never change. Learn to deal with it.. dont try to avoid the thought.. it will come back to hunt you in the future anyways. Your relationship with your husband is different now. Learn to be at peace with this new relationship. It's difficult to do, but no one said that life was easy. But trust me, it is worth it!

The husband is an unrepentent cad. Good that his wife "forgave" him, but he's done nothing it seems to repent. At the very least, he should terminate the woman involved.

On the other hand, if he really doesn't love his wife and refuses to take responsibility for his actions, then he should keep the candy jar very close for whenever he wants to grab some.