Quote:"If the will of every man were free,that is,if every man could act as he chose,the whole of history would be a tissue of disconnected accidents."
It might be. An it might not be a bad thing either, come to think on it.
Spendius, when you state that you are used to crap, and the reference is what it is in this case, I get a little hesitant because of what that implies.
When I engage in a debate with you I do so with the realization that my views might change as a direct result of your influence. I am prepared to listen and talk in equal measure, and though it is sometimes hard to maintain the proper balance my intention is always to try.
The problem with your remark is that it implies that you have no intention of even considering the validity of my opinions. I do not think that is a respectful way of engaging in a debate.
And yet I do not think that this is what you mean by this remark. I think you are referring to the way some of the messages are being delivered.
The skill of formulationg opinions so that they carry relevance without any form of judgement is one few posess. Much because it is hard to reach a satisfactory level of involvement without heating up, so to speak.
But this skill is not the only defense against jugement a debater can have. For my part I make it a point to listen for the relevance, and not the jugement. If it is wrong to make disrespectful remarks it is equally wrong to react disrespectfully when such remarks are recieved. This is what Jesus meant by turning the other cheek. With this in mind our differences can be as great as the distance between stars, and we will always be able to discuss them.