Quote:You have taken the quote about European and American literature out of contaxt.The original sentence is in Post1110023 on Page 13.It has ended up having me say the opposite of what I did say.
spendius.......sorry...........I didn't misunderstand your point. I was just putting in a word for a system I consider to be superior in every way to religion. But I agree, we can't expect the world and it's inhabitants to change too rapidly. Rapid change brings instability. And while instability is necessary, even desirable as an ingredient in human progress (and I do believe we're progressing) too much will back fire. I agree wholeheartedly.
I couldn't agree more that we are all less free than we are dependent on circumstances. However, there is something to be said for a degree of freedom. And I believe mankind is succeeding in however small a way in enlarging our spot of freedom. I think that's the freedom born2bfree is in search of. So on the macro level, you're right, but born2bfree is also right, as far as I'm concerned because he's talking about the little life we have. We're certainly freer than we have ever been.
Good ole technology.........and hooray for the human spirit. How much control and freedom do we need anyway? We only live for 8 or 9 decades. We need to enjoy every moment of it we can. That doesn't mean we should spit in the face of reality, but we can let loose a little and give ourselves a break.
Quote:With all due respect I really do not think Christianity
is understood.
understood by whom? If you mean me, with all due respect, we disagree.
Quote:The most important one it seems to me is to try to sympathise with people who really believed in certain things.Those beliefs were not something they switched on and off as the mood took them.
They were a very serious matter.They believed in salvation and damnation.It is bootless to discuss their foolishness.They believed.And other forces were at work. . . .
Again, I agree that one must be sympathetic with the complexity of a person's value system. The passion people invest in their value system is not to be underestimated. These are complicated brain pathways and derived at a very early age. All too often, when it comes to personal systems, logic is useless. And the pace of plausible change must be considered. Believe me, I am humble in every way....well, that's an over statement, but I am truly respectful of the needs of others.
My only point (almost) of disagreement with you is that religion is the best method of stability. Admittedly the switch over for society will have to be slow and/or stormy, probably both. But neither you nor I can stop it, even if we want to........which I see you may. But it still won't do you any good. Progress is inevitable......you may as well ride the wave.
Quote:IT HAS ALL BEEN ARRANGED.
The only thing that matters is how you are making out in it.
Yes, this is my point exactly. However, when you say:
Quote:I'm doing fine and I not only respect and support the status quo
are you sure this is the only way?
Quote: but I will make searching enquiries of those who jump in with amateur solutions the potential consequences of which they haven't the least idea.
Searching inquiries, by all means. That's definitely called for. But one must keep an open mind and not get caught up in the dogmas of the past. We should be looking for better methods, checking for inconsistencies and doing all we can to increase what little freedom we have. The more the merrier in this task, from my point of view. born2bfree is asking questions like the rest of us. We should listen to him a bit and encourage his search.
Do you not believe that even or especially the status quo should not be examined with as much searching inquiry as you demand of your fellow man or of yourself? Surely, just because we've come this far, it's not time to stop the inquiry.
Quote:There might well be "good.healthy reasons to encourage sex for pleasure" but there might also be good healthy reasons not to as well.
I think I didn't make myself clear here, sorry. I wasn't advocating sex for pleasure alone. I may be a liberal, but I'm not a libertine. (Or not entirely.) Still there is much to be said for as much freedom as possible within a framework of safe boundaries.
*Those boundaries should be set, I believe, based on (1) whether anyone is being hurt, (2) is there enough gratification? (3) can a person engage and maintain a sense of personal safety (4) while preserving some sense of living within one's own morality?
And I never judge the question of whether anyone is being hurt, nor do I give credence to a morality based on authority.......that is, I don't grant credence based exclusively on what the powers-that-have-been have concluded. If we are to progress, we must question authority just as we should be cautioned by authority's experience. Do you not agree? I'm not content to be limited by the advances of the generations before me. I want to make my own contribution as well.
Quote:I am a Vegan but I would not preach that on a public forum because it is possible if my rhetoric was brilliant that I might convert everybody and I have no idea what the consequences would be.In other words I would be being irresponsible.Also,young impressionable minds might be influenced and again I wouldn't want to take responsibility for that.And that goes for any preaching.By amateurs I mean.
If I understand you correctly, you seem to be willing to take too much responsibility for other's decisions. My daughters have been vegans. They were influenced by the parents of my older daughter's boy friend. My daughters were vegans for a while, both of them. But now they've changed their minds. I discouraged them because I don't believe it's the wisest way to go. But neither the boyfriend's parents nor I are responsible for my daughter's decisions.
But if you mean......as you seem to, that one should not, without study and thought, fling about ideas that may upset an entire system without having an idea about what should replace it.......then I agree here too.
Quote:F------g with the possibility of conception is a polar opposite to f------g without that possibility.You are guilty here of pandering to male self indulgence at women's expense.
Now, spendius...........I am pandering to
my own self indulgence, just as well at to the men's. You can't give males all the credit or all the fun. I'm interested in having fun myself. As a woman, I'm not a commodity to be handed about and used. I can use just as well as the next guy. I can take responsibility for myself and my own decisions, just as you can, I'm sure. Use and be used, you only live once. But when you use, use well.
Quote:Anybody who doesn't think Christianity is a viable system,biologically,has to provide a process for getting from where we are to where they would
like us to be and also to explain whether or not where they would like us to be is any good.
My suggestion for a viable method for getting us from religion to secular humanism and science is the method we are employing right now. We should debate the issues, struggle with the pros and cons, look for inconsistencies in old truths and when inconsistencies are found, search for new explanations. Then we have to search for the inconsistencies in the new theories. That's the scientific method........searching for the exception that proves the rule wrong or at least incomplete. This is the path to progress.
I believe science and the scientific method have much more to offer as a unifying system, than religion. Science is based on logic, rational and critical thinking, for one thing. And there is less superstition and magical thinking required. Superstition invites slavery and offers little protection from the frightened mob.
Quote:It was a metaphor which helped emphasise female "purity" possibly to try to rid the world of temple prostitution and other similar practices.
As I've said, I'm sure the metaphor was an improvement in it's day. But we need to move on. Women were much more helpless, relative to men, in those days. They needed help and protection. Today this is far from the case. And most women are able to define themselves as agents in the same way men have so often had the privilege to do. We need a new metaphor more appropriate to present day realities or potentialities. We've come a long way.......both men and women and thank goodness for it.
Quote:You give yourself away with the expression "guiding one's life".Theology and philosophy are about guiding group life.
Groups are made up of individuals and if more individuals are able to responsibly make their own decisions, groups will be more productive and less manipulatable......coercible or abused for the profit of the few.
Quote:It's the same problem with "some authority".What does "some" mean?Just enough to suit your purposes I suppose.Didn't de Sade dispose of that.
For my criteria, by way of definition of "some authority" see above (*) about the principles for judging where boundaries should be placed. IMO, authority should be defined functionally, as in how much authority is conducive to positive change, how much is required to maintain enough stability while the change is taking place, i.e., how well is this level of authority working given the realities of the times?
Quote:If I'm kicked off the forum I'd have to say that it wasn't a philosophy forum.
Well ok, but I'll miss you when you go. Hope it doesn't happen. Read the Terms of Service and make sure you find a way to live within them. It's an fine example of necessary authority.
Quote:If you have a need to "hit something,smash it against a wall.break it up" then that's a need I don't have and,I humbly suggest,rather proves my point.What is the obsession you speak of?I'm all eyes.
Some of us are more aggressive than others. Although I rather doubt, based on my experience with you here, that you are less aggressive than I. Obsession is a method, aggression is a drive. In any case, if you don't want to smash things, if you don't get angry and want to hurt others, then that means you have different wishes and needs than I do. You respect the needs of Christians. I hope you see my wishes or drives and their intensity as in need of as much sympathy as those you choose to understand. Smashing a ball with a racquetball against a wall while playing a fun game is an excellent sublimation for aggressive drive. Better the ball than someone's head, I'd say. It meets my criteria for a good enough method for management of my feelings and wishes. For criteria pertaining to "good enough method for management" (*), see again "boundaries" and "some authority" above.
Quote:I humbly suggest . . .
You're about as humble as I am........and I'm not very.
Quote:Medication is a necessary evil.
Medication is a gift of science. We should all learn to use it wisely. For definition of wise, (*) see boundaries, etc.
The Spectator is not a spectator. It's a mean bit of propaganda and it's owner, editor and contributors are not at all interested in investigation for truth. It's primary focus is self serving manipulation and coercion. There are better ways to provide structure and security to society than coercion and blatant self interest of the few at the expense of the many.
When it's not so late and I am less tired, I'll get some links for you on the history of the Spectator........but for now, I'm off to bed.
See you soon, I hope.
Edited for correct prepositions, spelling, grammar, the elimination of dangling modifiers, and an addition of bold face type in order to make reference easier. As I went down, I added a few thoughts as well, which I believe will make my meaning more evident. So read it all again if you will. Hope it all helped.