Married and Extremely Bi-Curious!

Do you think it's just sexual attraction or you think you will get attached emotionally? Do you love your husband? I think trying it out with a woman would change a lot of things between the two of you, so it would be good to talk about it first?

I think it's sexual attraction at this point for sure. I love my husband, we've been married 20yrs. I've always been attracted to women if I'm honest with myself, but it's always been secretly. My husband is the first and only person I've admitted it to, and he thankfully doesn't have a problem with it. I think it could potentially change things if I ever did experiment and he knows that too. But I dont know what to do about these urges that have gotten stronger the older I've gotten. I firmly believe if my husband wasn't in the picture, I would definitely see where my attraction lead me, not caring what anyone thought now. He knows that I regret not experimenting when I was younger, but that's not something that was remotely "ok" growing up.

If you and your husband are bisexual curious and agree to try to interact with bisexuality, you can try to find a relationship with a bisexual/bi-curious female, sexual orientation can not be suppressed, it is better to accept it.

There are a handful of "swinging" sites out there that you may want to check out. It may sound strange at first but it's a way to find other couples that are in your same situation and explore your curiosities with other committed couples.

That has been brought up in conversation, something we may ultimately look into. Thank you.

I ageee with and I'm understanding that more now. I'm trying to understand why my "want" is so strong now. It's always been there, I know that, but always able to suppress it or just not think about it. But now, I think about it all the time! Thank you

I think you might want to have an encounter with another couple who have bi-sexual tendencies or want to. I am male and found out late in life that I am bi. I enjoy sex with males a lot but am still attracted to women. With a bi couple you could both explore your bi side.

If the both of you are having these emotions then why not go with the flow and test the waters and see where the tide takes you. If your love is strong enough then your relationship will thrive no matter what.

Every person and relationship is different, so only you can answer the question of whether or not to approach the subject with your husband.

IMHO: You only live once, and it's better to regret something you have done, than do regret something you haven't done.

It's the best thing having sex with a woman babes, I would love to do it again xxxxxxx

My guess is you've been married a while. As we get older our drive drops and the usual doesn't work. Naturally, you mind starts to wander. Watching porn speeds that up I think.

As long as you communicate. Stress you will keep it woman to woman, and I think your husband should be find with you trying it.

Many feel like you do, after 20 years of marriage.

Go for it. Nothing wrong with it. I’m bi and have been with many married women some of there husbands know and even join other don’t and it is our secret

I know exactly what you mean. My husband is setting up a 3-way with his ex wife. She is bi and told him she thought I was cute. I have never been with a woman but have often fantasized about it and now about her. I can't get the image out of my mind about me grinding her face into my pussy until she brings me to orgasm. Maybe it's some kind of revenge sex to show her that I now have her man and also her tongue in my pussy. I don't have any desire to go down on her, I just want her to pleasure me. No telling where this will go.