Fri 14 Jul, 2017 11:42 pm
Hi, so I have been dating my boyfriend now for a year and I have stumbled across him watching daddy porn once before 6 months ago but I have just jumped on his phone to look up a movie review and turns out he's at it again. Searching Dady porn up.. he promised me it was a one time thing when it first happened a while ago. He was up at his parents this week and we promised we wouldn't masterbate or anything till we sore eachother last night. Instead he didn't have sex with me he went straight to bed. (It was yesterday he was watching this stuff). I always ask for sex. If I don't ask I don't Usualy get. I love him so much but what's the point if he cant keep to a promise? If I'm 22 I'm far from "daddy" material so I'm clearly not his secret type. Is walking out the right thing to do? It's not what I want to do but this is just to strange for me to even start to comprehend what's right or wrong.
@Lucas270695,
Porn is basically a fantasy. I worry a lot less about stuff like that than actual physical cheating, but YMMV. If it bothers you, then it bothers you.
So! Have a conversation. Explain why it bothers you. And see what happens.
He's got a specific fetish. It sounds like it's a sexual preference; it may be a compulsion.
Only you can decide if you can live with this.
@Lucas270695,
I'm a married bi-sexual and I like gay daddy porn. I like all different types of porn, gay and straight. Doesn't mean I want to leave my wife, I just like gay daddy porn. Why don't you watch it with him?
@Mark Steven,
Women can be very tolerant of many things, but they wont tolerate being second best! So how do you get to that point where you can enjoy daddy porn and your wife does not feel threatened by it?
@Lucas270695,
there is no reason to worry, every bou watches porn every day))