@person215,
Firstly - I adore honesty.
Secondly - I admire folk who speak candidly about issues that are 'taboo' in societal quarters.
SEX! SEX! SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is the 'generative' construct that this 'Current' 'paradigm' indoctrinates, WHOLEHEARTEDLY, into cultural formats.
How to overcome this 'PROGRAM' - Realise that 'That' which you have become accustomed to - Is your own acceptance of 'Others' persuasive' dealings - And your 'Weakened-Delivery' therewith.
Have a lovely Day