Quote:"Devious","torture" and "confession" as value judgements??I'm not so sure.False confession maybe . . .
Value judgements, yes.......well, for "devious," the first two definitions of the word are not value judgements:
Quote:1 : OUT-OF-THE-WAY, REMOTE
2 a : WANDERING, ROUNDABOUT <a devious path> b : moving without a fixed course : ERRANT <devious breezes>
However, in the most common use of the word, definition 3 applies, I believe.
Quote:3 a : deviating from a right, accepted, or common course b : not straightforward : CUNNING; also : DECEPTIVE
and "confession" ....... yes, the connotation, is the confession of a sin, indicating guilt of a wrong thought or act. For a definition of compromise formation, see Brenner. Freud coined the term, but Brenner has developed the idea into a useful concept. The idea being that contents of the unconscious have nothing to do with sins or saints. It has to do with wishes, like them or not.
The concept of right and wrong, good and evil is a function of [what has until very recently been known as] the superego. While the superego is not a place in the mind, as in a noun, it is an action, itself composing a compromise formation, as a verb. Superego is the value judgement, developed within the first 5 or 6 years of life, based on a perception of the young child of whether an action or wish pleases or displeases a parent.
As to false confessions.........there is no negative in the unconscious. Just as parody is about the subject. So that, "Not the Bible" is about the Bible. In the unconscious, everything is true, the question is, what is it true about? Whether a wish should exist or not is not a true or false question. It is, instead, an idea, developed in early life, based on experience with parents or other important figures in the child's life.
Torture.......I agree, less value judgement there. Whether one experiences torture or not is based on a feeling or sensation of unpleasure. Defense interpretations can be experienced as painful.......but they can also be experienced as a new freedom and that generally feels good. Torture does, however indicate a motive on the part of the torturer. The motive is to do harm, I believe. So in that sense, it's a value judgement as well.
Whether everything is compromise (formation) has nothing to do with cynicism. It is rather an empirical observation. Sorry if I'm getting too technical. It's my view of the world......it works for me better than anything else I've found.
I know that the more general understanding of the word "compromise" is one in which the compromiser is giving up a personal value or principle.......(as in "family values") in order to gain a desired result. But I was making a play on the word compromise from the psychoanalytic meaning. Too technical, perhaps.
And yes, I evaluate based on my own idea of the best way to get what I want without ruining it for myself. (what works for me.) It's a skill and some compromise formations work better than others. It's all about gratification and defense, while avoiding guilt and fear of punishment. That's the way I think of it.
My cute little poem is a revelation but not a confession. And yes, it is up the flagpole.
Quote:You are a materialist too Lola.Utility is all.Take care with the pudding.It might have some hard lumps in it on which teeth can get chipped
So then, after all this, we agree. Utility is all and the lumps are just as much a part of the pudding as is the sugar and spice.
Quote:What about my dream?
Yes, what about it? I'm waiting for your associations, deary, then we can get on with it.