Overbearing

Because it's porn, not Luchino Visconti.

Its really important to know that porn is exaggeration of sexual interaction between people. From the story line (if there is one) to the setting, characters, affective facial gestures, verbal interaction, physical positioning ( done for the camera). Its all Hollywood!!

Its good that you picked up on the crude remarks, all done to show male dominance. Some of them border on verbal and physical abuse.

Don't watch porn to learn how to make love.