In an affair, jealous of his wife

Hi there. Please ignore what others are saying. I am in a similar situation but the thing is that he has never mentioned that he will be leaving his wife. I kind of envy you on this. At least he did mention he will leave his wife. I am unsure what should I do now and I feel so lost and lonely.

So do I. My emotions are like roller coaster. Part of me wanting to let go. But part of me don’t bear to let go.

I have been in your situation (2.5 years) and my lover recently left his wife for me. Its wasn't easy and he almost stayed and it was the worst time in my life when that happened. I was always jealous of their time together and trips even though he told me not to be. Don't let anyone tell you men never leave. They do leave. Mine was also waiting for his daughter to graduate HS. I will always talk to you....I had no one either and I understand. Interestingly I am still married but getting out...but it was his marriage that was always going to be the problem b/c I always had freedom while his wife was super clingy, possessive and controlling. Happy to talk to you. I've been there...magic and misery and get it.

Hey there, I know your post is from a while back. Let me know if you get this!

Why should she let you know?

You haven't said anything.

Because it is not worth composing a considered response if the original author is not going to see it?

This is why the world is so messed up. People messing around with other people wives and husbands, somebody gets jealous and the next thing you know somebody is hurt or killed. Learn from Fatal attraction or Snapped. Those shows will show you your future if you don't cut this mess out. You're twice divorced as well which tells me something ain't right upstairs when it comes to decision making and this post proves it.

I think she is off of here

I agree with you, ChadSoul. It is a lack of respect for others as well as yourself, and also a lack of maturity. I have seen people condone flirting with others in front of their partners of whatever capacity, sexting, etc.

Are you still in your relationship

Hi,
Just wondering how things are for you now. Thanks.

Why is he seeking something outside his marriage? You don't know anything about her.

Find another man! One that isn't just using you. He will never leave his wife. If he does leave her he will cheat on you. Been there, done that, been on both sides.

Find another man, He will never leave his wife. This comes from experience!

Hello.

I know this post is old and maybe I'm doing something wrong but nevermind.
How is it going now ? About you and about your relationship ?