My friend asked my bf if he cheated, but the answer differs

dump the friend who thinks it is appropriate to talk to YOUR boyfriend about YOUR relationship (let alone to tell you about the conversation)

I'm amazed your boyfriend didn't dump you as a result.

that person is messing in something that is not their business

hopefully you talked to him and did actually not confront him

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and, really, the person you call a friend is not a friend

So you're saying dump me for asking him if he cheated on me because he openly admitted to someone else that he did?

Yeah I don't think confront is the word I should've used. I talked to him about it.

Ultimately - do you think I have a reason to worry that he actually did cheat or no?

Yup. If I was your boyfriend I'd likely have dumped you for having an idiot friend AND listening to her crap AND then bugging me about it.

Your so-called friend had NO business talking to your boyfriend about anything related to your relationship.

I hope you busted her ass about it.

Count me in with ehBeth on this one. Your friend had no business asking your BF anything. If you put her up to doing it for you, then you should be ashamed and beg your BF for forgiveness.

No, your friend told you because she wanted to cause trouble between you and your BF. If I were a betting man, I would bet your "friend" has the hots for your BF and wanted to cause the two of you trouble.

Who knows? This is what happens when you let others get into your business. It sows seeds of doubt where there were not any previously. Look, if you had no doubts about him before your "friend" butted in, then you probably should not doubt him now.

One last thing. I think your BF is a bit immature. His only response to your "friend's" text should have been "None of your damn business." And then he should have ignored her or blocked her. He needs a lesson in how not to let others butt into a relationship, just as you do.

He didn't open admit it.

Your friend is not a friend.

This is middle school stuff.

that's my suspicion as well

WHY is your friend asking your BF this?

Did you put her up to it?

It seems so odd that your friend would badger your boyfriend like that.

May I ask your ages?

I'd ask your friend to look at the texts they exchanged. That seems like a way to see what happened.

No. There is no benefit to anyone in continuing the idiocy.