@maxdancona,
Oh max.
Look. She's suggesting that he ask his questions to women he knows. They will likely be able to provide some context on what it's like to be a woman in America.
She's night trying to tell him that he has no right to ask the question.
This may be a big assumption, but I assume you agree that a woman may be able to offer a different perspective on what being a woman means in America right now.
Question for you. This phrase came up on a podcast I listen to. Do you think that it should be a group of men that determine if sexism is dead in America? Do you think a group of white people will determine when racism is dead in America? Do you think a group of men on a college campus will be the ones to determine if the rape culture is over?