(Yet another) Does he like me?

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I know you guys might be tired of these sort of questions, but I am truly completely confused about my crush and I need help.
We have known each other for a year now, but we only started being good friends for a few months.
During these months, there were moments that suggested that he liked me:
- he held my hand (fingers interlocked) when we were walking because I was tired
- he let me sleep on his shoulder when I was hanging out at his place
- he talks to me more than he talks to any of my friends
- he's always finding excuses to touch me (hugging me for no reason, playing with my hair, pushing me, etc.)
- he gets overly jealous and protective when I talk to other guys or when people talk to me about other guys
-he's made some subtle comments about us being together
-he carried me bridal style when I couldn't walk with my high heels
- I always catch him staring at me, and he always flirts when we make eye contact (wiggling his eyebrows and licking his lips, or winking)
- he's more affectionate towards me than he is towards anyone else, even the people he's known for a long time
- he's always teasing me (but in a nice way), and if he ever feels like he crossed a line, he instantly hugs me tightly to let me know he is only joking
- his friends are always teasing him about me or teasing me about him

Now, I know that you are probably saying that he definitely likes me, but here are a few things that suggest that he is friend-zoning me:
- he always tries to set me up with one of his friends, but once I actually start talking to them he gets jealous
- he asked me to set him up with a girl a few times
- he flirts with girls right in front of me, and sometimes he would even ignore me if he was talking to a girl he likes
- he literally friend-zoned me one time by telling me "You are one of my best friends", but then a few minutes after that he slow danced with me, huh?

So guys? What do you think? (BTW I noticed the way he acted towards his other "girl best friends" and it is really different compared to how he acts towards me, and it confuses me even more!

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@lauvias,

Yes. No. Maybe.

So - ask him out! What have you got to lose? Seriously.

"Dave (or whatever his name is), want to catch a movie?"

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You are right, he's sending all the signals.
Definitely talk to him! He's sending all the signals. I think it will make you happy to get it out in the open and discuss it!

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@lauvias,

Are you interested in him? have you asked him out on a date?

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@lauvias,

Here is the proven reliable CoastalRat way to determine if someone likes you. Please follow these steps carefully or it will not work.

Step 1 - Walk up to your crush.
Step 2 - Stand in front of him.
Step 3 - Look him or her in the eyes.
Step 4 - Lean forward and plant a kiss on his/her lips.
Step 5 - Tell him/her you've wanted to do that for a long time.

Now, if your crush runs screaming from your presence, then he/she probably is not interested and you may have to face disciplinary action if this happens at school or the work place. If he/she looks back at you and says "Wow, I always wanted to do that to you" then you know he is interested.

Let me know how it goes and remember, I am always interested in attending wedding receptions with an open bar. You can thank me then.

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