After all that, she should have known he was expecting sex.
I wasn't looking at him when he got it.
I just don't know why this guy had to come on to me like an animal and not take the hints from how me and my friend were acting.
I think you gave her bad advice. Its a little like telling women not to wear red panties or they could be tempting a rapist.
I never said rape. I feel very violated. I didn't ever tell him yes, I didn't throw myself on to this guy, I didn't act as if I enjoyed what he was doing.
If she got naked or nearly so and then got into bed with him, and was "doing stuff", she clearly gave consent by her actions.