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How do I fix this embarrassing situation?

 
 
Reply Mon 12 Dec, 2016 08:50 pm
Hi ladies,

Basically my title says it all but allow me to tell you the story.

So, I met this guy at a yatch party. It was after a month when we finally decided to see each other. On the first date, it was an instant connection and great chemistry. Then came the second date, again, it was wonderful, pizza and drinks after. We did it that day. He had to leave for an early dive the next day so he frankly agreed for me to go home. He didn't contacted me the next day so I reached out to him and we finally talked back again to only find out that he thinks that I sulked the last night which is why he did not contacted me. We made amends and moved on.

Now here is where the embarrassment comes in, I texted him yesterday asking him out if he wants to grab dinner aaaaand after not receiving a reply and saw him online and left whatsapp without reading my message, I took it back which leads me to think he has been ignoring me. So I texted my one last message telling him that I took a risk and it was worthless and cut off the line between us. I fucked up and I fucked up REAL bad. He replied though but I do not think something good will come out of this anymore. I apologized for being needy. I feel disgusted and annoyed at myself.
 
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 12 Dec, 2016 09:09 pm
@sheisamess,
Lesson hopefully learned.
sheisamess
 
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Reply Mon 12 Dec, 2016 09:16 pm
@cicerone imposter,
True. Learned it the ugliest way.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 12 Dec, 2016 10:13 pm
This guy is not willing to commit and doesn't expect you to commit. He likes casual relationships. Fun, pizza and sex.

You apparently want more than that.

Either take him the way he is or move on. He does not sound like he wants to settle down to one girl.
sheisamess
 
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Reply Mon 12 Dec, 2016 11:46 pm
@PUNKEY,
Even if he says it was not what he was after? Gosh, I'm stupid.
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 13 Dec, 2016 02:58 pm
@sheisamess,
He knows how to give out a great line.

YOU were the one who said he has the reputation as a flirt.
Pay attention.

I'm not saying give up on him, but just don't be surprised.
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V-Juliette
 
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Reply Tue 13 Dec, 2016 05:16 pm
I think he is simply not serious, why do you need this? if he refers to this in such a way
sheisamess
 
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Reply Tue 13 Dec, 2016 10:29 pm
@V-Juliette,
I don't know really why I need it.
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Mspeppermintea
 
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Reply Fri 16 Dec, 2016 03:09 am
@sheisamess,
Don't worry, things like these happen and someday if you happen to run into them, you will smile and shake your head thinking "what did i see in him?"
Honestly, I don't think you have anything to be embarrassed about. People have sex, sometimes the girl wants out, sometimes the guy wants out, you get my idea. In your case, I think he wants out. Let him go and if he comes back, be friendly but not too friendly.
Oh and please stop being the one to contact him, especially at crucial moments like after sex and when making the next date, it should be the guy who's doing that.
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